welcome
@Mariemocha
condolences if you lost your father recently.
very nice watch BTW
I have quite slim wrists for a chap (but still substantially larger than yours at about 6.5-7") and to be honest, although I love mine, I struggle with a BOR.
It's not so much the removing of the links to reduce the size, it is the size of the folding section of the clasp that is the issue, as it half as long again as the clasp cover.
With wrists as small as yours, the folding section may stick out the side of your wrist.
Mine is the later, 'square' BOR and I have 9/7 links showing either side of the closed clasp, my guestimation is that this would reduce to something like 6/4 links if I was to reduce it by 1.5".
@janice&fred
Fred, have you had this issue when sizing a BOR for Janice?
if you do manage to source one, my top tip would be to have someone size it to your wrist (whilst you are there) as the links will need to be removed asymmetrically to allow the cover clasp to sit centrally.
I've tried to compare your watch side by side with mine to show wrist sizes.
Mine is also a 14382 like
@MikeMan2727 's but a dome dial like yours, however, as Mike said, your's is the 14393 date version.
My watch is on the dark brown strap it came on, it's not right for the watch but I've never got around to changing it.
I actually like the chestnut strap your's is on but I have other gold Connies on light brown and black lizard - all look good.
Hope that helps