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·Totally fair question and thanks for asking it @MtV. I’m not put off by the notion of learning about the watches, really just the opposite. I am very interested in learning - my questions are focused on discovering what I can about watches that I find aesthetically pleasing. However, I recognize that I am ignorant of most details in the various vintages - so I present a few of these older watches to the more knowledgeable people in the forum for advice and insight. Like the way a child might ask a parent about something interesting it found in the backyard. Forum members have often pointed out things that I didn’t know to look for and my education grows. I don’t see how that’s a problem.
I am confused (and put off) by the instruction to “slow down and learn from the forum.” It seems to imply that I should just dedicate time to reading through the forum? Like studying for an online class maybe? I have a 60+ hour per week job and a large family - dedicating significant time to reading the forum is outside my time limits.
I am also put off by the notion that it’s offensive or inappropriate to ask a question like: “This is nice, but something seems off about it. Does anyone have an opinion or see something I don’t?” No one has to answer the question if they’re annoyed by it. The name of this section of the forum certainly implies this question should be acceptable.
I only became defensive after the third member piled on to tell me to stop asking questions and get educated. And it is ridiculous to claim you’ve been perfectly polite when you’ve written: “It's not your ignorance that is rubbing people the wrong way, it's your attitude.” If you’ll check the earlier part of this thread, I received a straightforward answer that this watch was a redial and I thanked him for his time. Wish that had been the end of the discussion.
Thanks for the opportunity to discuss @MtV. This was fun.
I am confused (and put off) by the instruction to “slow down and learn from the forum.” It seems to imply that I should just dedicate time to reading through the forum? Like studying for an online class maybe? I have a 60+ hour per week job and a large family - dedicating significant time to reading the forum is outside my time limits.
I am also put off by the notion that it’s offensive or inappropriate to ask a question like: “This is nice, but something seems off about it. Does anyone have an opinion or see something I don’t?” No one has to answer the question if they’re annoyed by it. The name of this section of the forum certainly implies this question should be acceptable.
I only became defensive after the third member piled on to tell me to stop asking questions and get educated. And it is ridiculous to claim you’ve been perfectly polite when you’ve written: “It's not your ignorance that is rubbing people the wrong way, it's your attitude.” If you’ll check the earlier part of this thread, I received a straightforward answer that this watch was a redial and I thanked him for his time. Wish that had been the end of the discussion.
Thanks for the opportunity to discuss @MtV. This was fun.
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