Thank you for sharing.
I've been studying the bracelet and firmly believe the problem is not entirely the clasp. The issue is also caused by the bracelet not being flexible enough around the holes. So the entire underside can act like one long solid piece clamping down on the wrist.
Thanks to a tip from
@the_drunk_dial, I've found that the solution is to manually "break-in" the bracelet around the holes, loosening up the mesh links and making it much more flexible around the holes. I did this on my short bracelet and it has made a HUGE difference. Before the comfort was just OK. But after making the bracelet articulate around the holes more, it has become very comfortable for my wrist.
This is how much my bracelet could bend around the holes "before".
"After" about 8-9 days of carefully bending the area around the holes to make the mesh more flexible, I could bend it this much.
I'm now very happy with the short bracelet. It looks great and feels great!
I can wear it on the 4th hole from the lugs for a nice snug and very comfortable fit.
Or I can wear it looser on the 5th hole from the lugs. When wearing it looser, it now falls much more naturally around my wrist, with less bulges on the sides.
Plus, I can now wear it comfortably over my wrist joint (as in this pic) and it no longer makes the clasp dig into my wrist.