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··IG: #blubarb19Hi Kwijibo
Thank you for your comment. The best part of OF is that our opinions are tolerated as long as we are gentlemanly and not abusive; but with all due respect, you are sailing close to the wind with your tone. I am putting it down to frustration...
Well having said that...let me say this...
1. My comment was NOT an attack on you and especially questioning your integrity, why would I do that, I don't know you. I can only go by what you posted and that seemed quite measured and controlled though I could sense a frustration. I really don't know how you got an abusive attack on your honesty based on my words or tone - please supply some supporting evidence so I can duly assess.
2. I don't care how much you ask for your speedy or your friend's speedy just as you don't care how much I offer my watches for, but there is a point where the sale price is so ambitious that it becomes contentious and boarders on being silly especially if it is based on an idea that one day they could be worth that. You say in a previous post: "...remeber a few years ago people screaming at 3000 euros speedies." that maybe the case in the future but it is not right now - I (and note I say I) don't sell based on the premise that one day my asking price will seem cheap - so I am not sure of your argument here or if that's even a sound reasoning for valuing any item for sale - not even stocks or gold is sold on that basis - at least I don't think so.
3. Yes you are right, prices are fairly decided in an open market - your friend is free to take it to eBay or some such auction site but why would he expect to get more than current value in that market either, especially as, and as you state elsewhere he wants to sell quickly? Of course ask what he likes, but my point is not about the asking price per se, but about selling for friends as it bypasses the 200 rule and though technically permissible opens up various problems - but that is your issue, your friend's issue and a potential buyer (which is all of us theoretically) and so on that basis alone we can formulate an opinion even if it angers and frustrates you or me.
4. In regards to distance, surely you do distance yourself the moment you say it is for your friend - that is not a bad thing as it puts us on notice that we are moving away from a forum sale, maybe I am wrong on that but it's just a view. You can collect the funds, do whatever you like as that is between yourself, your friend and the potential buyer, but my point is, and again openly, how does the buyer make an assessment of the seller's credibility? They can't they can only assess you and your history (which in your case is rightly unchallenged). I have absolutely no reason to doubt you or your integrity but what if something does go wrong? Will you be responsible for resolving issues or is the buyer out on his own? Most of us, you and I included, operate within the forum based on our positive and ongoing reputations - your friend is known to you but is an unknown quantity to an OF member who might want to use that reputation as a safe-guard (which theoretically is all of us) hence my objection to selling for friends. How does selling for friends differ (in real terms) from buying from a zero poster?
5. Personally I found your tone was out of context to the intent of my point(s), but I understand why. Be assured there was NO intent at an attack on you or your credibility.
6. As to your sentence: "As for your opinion on my intention of "f... someone" or "f... all" on this forum" how did you get to that other than from a vague reference to the possible intention of some seller - including myself if you read carefully. I can sense the frustration you have and I felt it in a few of your previous responses hence why I understated my views and (so I thought) structured my response, but to be met with a short diatribe from you because you are frustrated seems a little unwarranted but I get it.
I am sure we can see beyond this differing point of view and who knows maybe one day you and I might want to complete a transaction together and if that were the case I would be more than happy to do so.
Thank you for your comment. The best part of OF is that our opinions are tolerated as long as we are gentlemanly and not abusive; but with all due respect, you are sailing close to the wind with your tone. I am putting it down to frustration...
Well having said that...let me say this...
1. My comment was NOT an attack on you and especially questioning your integrity, why would I do that, I don't know you. I can only go by what you posted and that seemed quite measured and controlled though I could sense a frustration. I really don't know how you got an abusive attack on your honesty based on my words or tone - please supply some supporting evidence so I can duly assess.
2. I don't care how much you ask for your speedy or your friend's speedy just as you don't care how much I offer my watches for, but there is a point where the sale price is so ambitious that it becomes contentious and boarders on being silly especially if it is based on an idea that one day they could be worth that. You say in a previous post: "...remeber a few years ago people screaming at 3000 euros speedies." that maybe the case in the future but it is not right now - I (and note I say I) don't sell based on the premise that one day my asking price will seem cheap - so I am not sure of your argument here or if that's even a sound reasoning for valuing any item for sale - not even stocks or gold is sold on that basis - at least I don't think so.
3. Yes you are right, prices are fairly decided in an open market - your friend is free to take it to eBay or some such auction site but why would he expect to get more than current value in that market either, especially as, and as you state elsewhere he wants to sell quickly? Of course ask what he likes, but my point is not about the asking price per se, but about selling for friends as it bypasses the 200 rule and though technically permissible opens up various problems - but that is your issue, your friend's issue and a potential buyer (which is all of us theoretically) and so on that basis alone we can formulate an opinion even if it angers and frustrates you or me.
4. In regards to distance, surely you do distance yourself the moment you say it is for your friend - that is not a bad thing as it puts us on notice that we are moving away from a forum sale, maybe I am wrong on that but it's just a view. You can collect the funds, do whatever you like as that is between yourself, your friend and the potential buyer, but my point is, and again openly, how does the buyer make an assessment of the seller's credibility? They can't they can only assess you and your history (which in your case is rightly unchallenged). I have absolutely no reason to doubt you or your integrity but what if something does go wrong? Will you be responsible for resolving issues or is the buyer out on his own? Most of us, you and I included, operate within the forum based on our positive and ongoing reputations - your friend is known to you but is an unknown quantity to an OF member who might want to use that reputation as a safe-guard (which theoretically is all of us) hence my objection to selling for friends. How does selling for friends differ (in real terms) from buying from a zero poster?
5. Personally I found your tone was out of context to the intent of my point(s), but I understand why. Be assured there was NO intent at an attack on you or your credibility.
6. As to your sentence: "As for your opinion on my intention of "f... someone" or "f... all" on this forum" how did you get to that other than from a vague reference to the possible intention of some seller - including myself if you read carefully. I can sense the frustration you have and I felt it in a few of your previous responses hence why I understated my views and (so I thought) structured my response, but to be met with a short diatribe from you because you are frustrated seems a little unwarranted but I get it.
I am sure we can see beyond this differing point of view and who knows maybe one day you and I might want to complete a transaction together and if that were the case I would be more than happy to do so.



