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·30 something dentist here as well. I picked up a FOIS about a year ago, from a dealer in Japan. New unworn and with a hefty discount. I LOVE it. No regrets whatsoever.
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I used to get myself stuff. My third child is scheduled for delivery tomorrow. I may have $4,000 or so at the end of the month but then I save $ hundreds per child per month for college, I pay down the mortgage quicker because if something happened or I couldn’t work, I wouldn’t want to have to move and change their schools, then anything left I throw into the savings because who knows what they’ll need. I think having kids has overtaken my ability to buy myself stuff. I needed a new vehicle and my wife asked me to get an SUV or large car to fit the kids so I purchased the cheapest new SUV for sale. No thought about what I might have wanted. My one nice suit was too baggy on me so I asked my friend where he gets his nice looking suits and we wears custom fitted Hugo Boss suits for about $1000. My wife told me to go get one so instead I go to Kohl’s and buy a clearanced one (fits well and looks good) for $120. I think deep down I feel that spending unnecessary money is robbing my kids future. Sorry to use this as a psychology session but thanks to all of your helpful reasoning, I think I’m seeing the light.
I am not sure at what point this thread changed from a discussion about the affordability of a hobby to a stark choice between family survival and buying a watch? Any hobby (gambling, watches, jewelry, cars, sports fan, drinking etc. etc) taken to obsession that has a detrimental effect on your family is obviously not healthy but that does not mean you can't enjoy something in moderation within in the bounds of your own disposable income and time. It is up to you and your family to decide what the boundaries are.
Just remember that having a hobby can also have health benefits too especially in terms of mental health as much as anything else
I am not sure at what point this thread changed from a discussion about the affordability of a hobby to a stark choice between family survival and buying a watch? Any hobby (gambling, watches, jewelry, cars, sports fan, drinking etc. etc) taken to obsession that has a detrimental effect on your family is obviously not healthy but that does not mean you can't enjoy something in moderation within in the bounds of your own disposable income and time. It is up to you and your family to decide what the boundaries are.
Just remember that having a hobby can also have health benefits too especially in terms of mental health as much as anything else
...Is this a hobby for the super rich?..
..I’m a 30 something dentist who’s been eyeing my first Omega (Speedmaster Pro) but haven’t been able to justify purchasing one...
..Am I just too darn cheap ?..
I know plenty of people who don't have the watch bug and scoff at me for wearing "expensive" watches yet they spend a lot of money on stuff I would never own or do.
Not to sound snarky, but I thought the original question was well, curious. Most of my dentist friends don't worry about affording a watch; they worry about their golf game.