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I’m kinda confused. I keep Rocky raccoons food and water full, get catnip and treats which i dole out daily, yet he has picked my wife as his “favorite”. I clean up after him, rescued him from the shelter, bring him to the vet (ok the vet probably not cool he hates it)

I know some animals prefer females. When sooper dooper was alive she would hide if I had a male visitor but come out to visit females. When my wife’s car pulls up he goes insane yelling at the door.

I feel some kind of way about this. Going back to being a kid I was always the “human” the animal would pick as its buddy. May have to get a white fluffy cat sooner than I thought to combat the unexpected turn of events. My wife was scared of damn cats when we first got together how did things go so wrong?

In my experience, it's always worth trying a bit of, environmental enrichment, pretend hunting, intelligent play etc.. favourite treats should be consistently given when engagement is rewarding for both you and Mr Raccoon😉
 
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I’m kinda confused. I keep Rocky raccoons food and water full, get catnip and treats which i dole out daily, yet he has picked my wife as his “favorite”. I clean up after him, rescued him from the shelter, bring him to the vet (ok the vet probably not cool he hates it)

I know some animals prefer females. When sooper dooper was alive she would hide if I had a male visitor but come out to visit females. When my wife’s car pulls up he goes insane yelling at the door.

I feel some kind of way about this. Going back to being a kid I was always the “human” the animal would pick as its buddy. May have to get a white fluffy cat sooner than I thought to combat the unexpected turn of events. My wife was scared of damn cats when we first got together how did things go so wrong?
Don't be shortsighted, it's incredibly beneficial to have the pet winning over your wife. 👍
 
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One of our shelter cats. I try to pat her daily or play fight through the cage. Just found someone to adopt her I hate seeing cats in cages although it’s well cared for
 
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Looking for some advice....actually. My little dude Franklin, an almost 10 year old little 15lb mutt, has been exhibiting some behavior issues.
I've had him since he was just a few weeks old and he's always been pretty good. Took to house training rather easily and generally followed "orders".
He liked people, but was a little skittish around other dogs, but not all. Overall he was a good boy, in my opinion.
But in the last few years, he's changed. He's become seemingly more anxious. Excessive barking - especially when we are leaving the house - like separation anxiety? He just seems more on edge, barking at the tv, getting fired up at things he notices outside in the yard.
And in the last 6 months or so, hes started peeing in the house. I don't think full on pees, but more like marking, maybe?
There have been no major changes to his surroundings or routine...except for my kids.
They are 6 and 3. And when I think about it, I really think it may have started when the first one was born and has become worse over the years.
Up until a year or so ago, Franklin did not even really interact with them too much. But now, he and the 6yo are buddy buddy. And interestingly, he' s making on her stuff.
I really think the kids are to blame, they can be loud and wild and maybe it is just over stimulating him. That's my theory at least.
So what I want to find out, is how to help him.
I've been giving some thought about getting him a companion. Adding another dog into the mix.
When I was a kid, I had a Beagle - Max. Best dog ever. But he also developed some sort of separation anxiety. I remember having to take him to the front of the house, and then running full speed to get out the back door. Otherwise, he'd force his way outside and refuse to go back inside.
We got another dog and that seemed to work perfectly. The two of them got along great, and he didn't care if we left anymore.
That is why I'm considering getting another dog. But I realize that Franklin's issues may be a little different than Max's, and the last thing I would want to do is make a possibly territorial dog even worse.
To add another factor into all of this, we are about to move out of our house - a home we have been in for the last 5 years.
In just a few weeks, we will be moving in to a rental for about 6 months while we wait for our new house to be finished.Not sure how Franklin will react to this change given everything else currently.
If you've read all this - I appreciate you, and would like to know if anyone has any insight on the pros and cons of adding another dog in my situation.
 
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Looking for some advice....actually. My little dude Franklin, an almost 10 year old little 15lb mutt, has been exhibiting some behavior issues.
I've had him since he was just a few weeks old and he's always been pretty good. Took to house training rather easily and generally followed "orders".
He liked people, but was a little skittish around other dogs, but not all. Overall he was a good boy, in my opinion.
But in the last few years, he's changed. He's become seemingly more anxious. Excessive barking - especially when we are leaving the house - like separation anxiety? He just seems more on edge, barking at the tv, getting fired up at things he notices outside in the yard.
And in the last 6 months or so, hes started peeing in the house. I don't think full on pees, but more like marking, maybe?
There have been no major changes to his surroundings or routine...except for my kids.
They are 6 and 3. And when I think about it, I really think it may have started when the first one was born and has become worse over the years.
Up until a year or so ago, Franklin did not even really interact with them too much. But now, he and the 6yo are buddy buddy. And interestingly, he' s making on her stuff.
I really think the kids are to blame, they can be loud and wild and maybe it is just over stimulating him. That's my theory at least.
So what I want to find out, is how to help him.
I've been giving some thought about getting him a companion. Adding another dog into the mix.
When I was a kid, I had a Beagle - Max. Best dog ever. But he also developed some sort of separation anxiety. I remember having to take him to the front of the house, and then running full speed to get out the back door. Otherwise, he'd force his way outside and refuse to go back inside.
We got another dog and that seemed to work perfectly. The two of them got along great, and he didn't care if we left anymore.
That is why I'm considering getting another dog. But I realize that Franklin's issues may be a little different than Max's, and the last thing I would want to do is make a possibly territorial dog even worse.
To add another factor into all of this, we are about to move out of our house - a home we have been in for the last 5 years.
In just a few weeks, we will be moving in to a rental for about 6 months while we wait for our new house to be finished.Not sure how Franklin will react to this change given everything else currently.
If you've read all this - I appreciate you, and would like to know if anyone has any insight on the pros and cons of adding another dog in my situation.

You're smart to notice his changes and to seek advice. As well meaning as we are, our advice may not be accurate. It's similar to looking for medical advice on WebMD. It may be accurate but not related to your specific issues.

My initial gut reaction to your idea about another dog is that it might make it worse if Franklin is insecure with his position in your pack, which it sounds like he might be.

Does Franklin have a quiet place of his own? Anywhere he can go to be by himself and rest?

There's probably a trigger, either environmental or medical, which will make sense once you discover it. But figuring it out is the hard part, obviously.
 
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You're smart to notice his changes and to seek advice. As well meaning as we are, our advice may not be accurate. It's similar to looking for medical advice on WebMD. It may be accurate but not related to your specific issues.

My initial gut reaction to your idea about another dog is that it might make it worse if Franklin is insecure with his position in your pack, which it sounds like he might be.

Does Franklin have a quiet place of his own? Anywhere he can go to be by himself and rest?

There's probably a trigger, either environmental or medical, which will make sense once you discover it. But figuring it out is the hard part, obviously.
Age changes? Brain chemistry? Get him checked out for health of course but they have things that apparently help with mood and anxiety. We gave my dog something for that seperation anxiety as she started tearing up couch pillows when we were gone. She became a real mess when younger she wasn’t like that.

The vet wanted to put my beloved cat hairy on Prozac Ashe said she was one of the more high strung beings he had ever seen but I knew it was because she was a human trapped in a cats body so I said no she’s been high strung her whole life it’s who she is. But whatever we put my Shepard on helped her sorry I can’t recall the Med but maybe worth a try after ruling out medical issues.
 
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One of our shelter cats. I try to pat her daily or play fight through the cage. Just found someone to adopt her I hate seeing cats in cages although it’s well cared for
Best of luck to her 👍 we've had 2 cats and 1 dog so far, from rescues.
 
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Best of luck to her 👍 we've had 2 cats and 1 dog so far, from rescues.
Well in this case this is a cat that belongs to a human at a homeless shelter. Most homeless shelters don’t take animals and you would be amazed at the amount of homeless people who refuse shelter as they can’t take their pet. The fire marshal is giving us a hard time about cages now, I understand we had a humongous cage for a Shepard that was blocking the fire exit. Our old CEO used to be able to smooth things over and just pay a small fine but things are changing with the new CEO. Now I’ve spent 8 hours of a work day just trying to find a place for someone’s animal. Once this cat is placed I can get a young girls dog in but it’s coming down to the wire.

If this particular cat was a long haired white cat I would have taken her myself.
 
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A couple of weekends ago, we spent a few days in the High Fens at 30m from the German border, in a small chalet.

We were all super tired, including Neo, who was happy to have a grass garden.

We were there to relax, sleep, and enjoy some homemade cooking and good wine.

The closest small grocery shops and bakery were on the other side of the border, so it really felt like being away!

Neo enjoyed some bones, and we did some very limited walks.

Nevertheless, we all enjoyed it very much!
 
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A couple of weekends ago, we spent a few days in the High Fens at 30m from the German border, in a small chalet.

We were all super tired, including Neo, who was happy to have a grass garden.

We were there to relax, sleep, and enjoy some homemade cooking and good wine.

The closest small grocery shops and bakery were on the other side of the border, so it really felt like being away!

Neo enjoyed some bones, and we did some very limited walks.

Nevertheless, we all enjoyed it very much!

so nice!!!
 
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Well in this case this is a cat that belongs to a human at a homeless shelter. Most homeless shelters don’t take animals and you would be amazed at the amount of homeless people who refuse shelter as they can’t take their pet. The fire marshal is giving us a hard time about cages now, I understand we had a humongous cage for a Shepard that was blocking the fire exit. Our old CEO used to be able to smooth things over and just pay a small fine but things are changing with the new CEO. Now I’ve spent 8 hours of a work day just trying to find a place for someone’s animal. Once this cat is placed I can get a young girls dog in but it’s coming down to the wire.

If this particular cat was a long haired white cat I would have taken her myself.
Usually when I've seen homeless people with dogs the dogs have been Staffies
 
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He is sitting here knocking everything within reach off the counter. I picked up the tea box 3x
 
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Feeling the heat today,