I dunno about you, I'd take the cats over some humans! The bond is what's important, not who/what it's with. 80 hours a week? Are you trying to run out the new ETA movements? Slow down man! Get an beer, share the sunset, walk on the beach with your partner, cattos, sniff the roses, enjoy the mushroo....aaaah zip! Jokes aside, like most of us, we have a fair idea what's hurting us. You know what you need to do.