When love fails to blossom .... or is it buyer's remorse?

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I've been there too @jimmyd13.

You find something you love (or think you love, or feel that you should love), that needs repair... it goes away for a while... it comes back... you don't love it.

I've had this with 5 pieces in the last year or so.

What worked for me, was to get them back, and hang on to them for a few months, wear then when I fancied, and see if I fell in love... and if not, moved them along.

Go slow, and make good choices. 馃憤
 
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Perhaps it's the fault of the delayed gratification from having to wait for them. I hear some who have waited for the Speedy Tuesday and the 60th Anniversary trio are meeting their new watches with a lukewarm greeting too.
 
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This is a well documented phenomenon, often cited when trying to cure addictions - if you can resist the urge to 'pull the trigger' for the first ten minutes, and overcome the initial very strong desire, then you have a much greater chance of not eventually 'falling off the wagon'.

This is a quote from Zenhabits.net

  1. Delay. Instead of acting on the urge right when it arises, pause. Don鈥檛 act right away. Put some space between the urge and your action. Let your heartbeat return to normal, your breathing become a bit deeper. Calm down.
I have to say, some of my biggest 'noob/not so noob and should no better tax' mistakes have been on impulse buys. I've spent a lot of money browsing EBay etc at moments when I'm at a loose end ( and/ or drunk 馃槻 ), and now find if I can just force myself to wait a bit ( do you really really need another [ insert random watch type ] ?) then more often than not I walk away with no regrets (and $$$ in the bank still )....
 
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Delay 馃槖 in this game...
Man I have missed watches on here having a sip of coffee, or finishing dinner.

Pounce like a tiger I say, pounce don't think pounce......

We have all done the " Newly listed BIN pounce "

( even though @JimInOz has accused me of being "like a seagull on hot chips" at times.)
 
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I've been there too @jimmyd13.

You find something you love (or think you love, or feel that you should love), that needs repair... it goes away for a while... it comes back... you don't love it.

I've had this with 5 pieces in the last year or so.

What worked for me, was to get them back, and hang on to them for a few months, wear then when I fancied, and see if I fell in love... and if not, moved them along.

Go slow, and make good choices. 馃憤
Such advice. So good. You're probably right but I received an email a half hour ago telling me that the 2998 was in the mail ... and I had a little tinge of excitement.

This is a quote from Zenhabits.net

  1. Delay. Instead of acting on the urge right when it arises, pause. Don鈥檛 act right away. Put some space between the urge and your action. Let your heartbeat return to normal, your breathing become a bit deeper. Calm down
And this is why I can't quit smoking either?

Delay 馃槖 in this game...
Man I have missed watches on here having a sip of coffee, or finishing dinner.
It's those ba****ds who post ads at 2am. I mean, why do people live on the West Coast anyway? Maybe I shouldn't sleep until after 4am? But then I might miss the for sale posts from Singapore?
 
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It's those ba****ds who post ads at 2am. I mean, why do people live on the West Coast anyway? Maybe I shouldn't sleep until after 4am? But then I might miss the for sale posts from Singapore?

Sleep - There is a rookie mistake right there 馃槜
 
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I should be dancing on air right now.

I have two watches coming back from two separate watch makers this week. I haven't been able to wear either since I bought them as both needed work. They are both at different extremes of watch collecting.

The first, which should be with me on Thursday, is a wonderful 2998. One owner from new sold it to the chap I bought it from in the mid 90's. He kept it in a drawer when the hour recorder stopped working shortly after he bought it. The venerable (no, he's too young to be venerable and that adjective should only be used for Mr. Maddox) Simon Freese has giving this watch his attention and it should be all correct bar the later bezel. A conversation with our very own @Spacefruit convinced me to keep the replacement bezel, at least for now, as it is part of the watch's story. I should be bursting with anticipation of wearing this for the first time ... but I'm not. I can't understand why not. Am I worried that it's too valuable to wear in the real world? That it might be damaged? I have other rare and valuable watches that I give no thought to wearing every single day ... so why am I so un-excited about what should be a true grail? Here's what she looked like when she left me:


The second is something that should be pure unadulterated fun. A Sorna World Timer from the early 70s that I've had for over two years. That has been through the workshops of three watchmakers and always been returned as "not repairable". I was talking to a retired watchmaker a couple of weeks ago who asked if I would let him "have a go" at it. He called me to say it took him 15 minutes to repair as someone had put the click spring in the wrong way round. When I bought this as a non-working piece, I had a strap made for it. It was going to be my "Summer Soldier", inspired by the Marvel film "The Winter Soldier". This is what the Sorna was like the last time I photographed her:

and these are her new shoes ...

So, is this my first time experiencing "buyer's remorse" or have I just reached the point where I genuinely have too many watches?
1) The fact that the 2998 has the wrong Bezel is getting in the way IMO...Source a correct one even though you will pay through the nose, but do it at your leisure. This is a very nice nice nice watch with a correctable flaw. Don't Obsess.
2) The SOMA is wicked cool. Show us some pics with that strap! Your frustration in getting it serviced is getting in the way here. You gave it up for dead, now it is working. Have fun with it.

Advice given is solid...Keep em, wear em and make a call down the road.
 
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So, er, yes .... I picked her up less than 2 minutes ago .... More will follow in due course