timjohn
·Wear anything you like....
But if you do want to be a stickler: black strap worn above the wrist bone so 1cm or so shows below the (French) cuff when your arm is bent, white or yellow metal (if you wear a wedding/signet/class ring and/or cufflinks it should match the metal colour), white dial, two or three hander with no other complications, and no bigger than 38mm unless you're a gorilla.
Along with a soft fold-down collar (butterfly collars should be reserved for white tie) on a lightly starched waffle-fronted (studs optional nowadays) shirt (no ruffles), black single or double-breasted jacket with silk-facing on the lapels and no back vents, high-waisted trousers with a single slug trail on the side seams, no separate belt (braces are traditional), black waistcoat that buttons no higher than the sternum or a cummerbund (you can get away with a family tartan if the wedding is in Scotland and you're not wearing a kilt or trous), and black patent-leather lace-up shoes.
It has to be said that most of these rules are abitrary -- made up by snobs so they could laugh up their immaculately tailored sleeves at people they regarded as less 'smart' than them. The point is not so much to abide by them as know when you're ignoring them.
This is my go to on the rare occasions I go to a black-tie do nowadays.
But if you do want to be a stickler: black strap worn above the wrist bone so 1cm or so shows below the (French) cuff when your arm is bent, white or yellow metal (if you wear a wedding/signet/class ring and/or cufflinks it should match the metal colour), white dial, two or three hander with no other complications, and no bigger than 38mm unless you're a gorilla.
Along with a soft fold-down collar (butterfly collars should be reserved for white tie) on a lightly starched waffle-fronted (studs optional nowadays) shirt (no ruffles), black single or double-breasted jacket with silk-facing on the lapels and no back vents, high-waisted trousers with a single slug trail on the side seams, no separate belt (braces are traditional), black waistcoat that buttons no higher than the sternum or a cummerbund (you can get away with a family tartan if the wedding is in Scotland and you're not wearing a kilt or trous), and black patent-leather lace-up shoes.
It has to be said that most of these rules are abitrary -- made up by snobs so they could laugh up their immaculately tailored sleeves at people they regarded as less 'smart' than them. The point is not so much to abide by them as know when you're ignoring them.
This is my go to on the rare occasions I go to a black-tie do nowadays.
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