Instagram has become the new Facebook

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I appreciate all the feedback. Obviously, I'm not alone, and probably late to the party noticing where IG has been headed in recent years.

Am I correct that the social media platforms make money by maximizing user engagement, and it turns out that negative content stimulates more engagement than positive, so it's basically a race to the bottom at this point? Or is that an oversimplification?

Even if you can hook people with negative content for a while, ultimately, it seems like it would drive people away in the long run? If so, it seems like there would be an argument, even from a strictly commercial point of view, to provide a different user experience from most of what is happening right now with social media? But perhaps most companies are all looking at quarterly profits, stock prices, and it's hard to think in longer terms, I don't know.

As I mentioned before, I would seriously consider paying a monthly fee for an IG account where I am in control of the feed.
 
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Am I correct that the social media platforms make money by maximizing user engagement, and it turns out that negative content stimulates more engagement than positive, so it's basically a race to the bottom at this point?
Yes.
 
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As I mentioned before, I would seriously consider paying a monthly fee for an IG account where I am in control of the feed.
At this point they’re probably less interested in your money than giving themselves the right to do whatever they want with your posts including monetize and train AI with them.

https://www.niemanlab.org/2026/10/m...the-scraping-of-news-sites-legal-experts-say/

https://digiday.com/media/metas-new-scraping-terms-galvanize-publishers-into-collective-action/
 
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At this point they’re probably less interested in your money than giving themselves the right to do whatever they want with your posts including monetize and train AI with them.

https://www.niemanlab.org/2026/10/m...the-scraping-of-news-sites-legal-experts-say/

https://digiday.com/media/metas-new-scraping-terms-galvanize-publishers-into-collective-action/
yah if they wanted to offer paid subscriptions, I'm sure they would have long ago, but that's probably the opposite of what they want to do.
 
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Their business model ain’t working. Low growth. That’s why we see so much slop.
 
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For now I've deleted the IG app from my phone and will only use the desktop version on my computer to stay somewhat active. Hopefully this will avoid some of the downside, and still keep connected to other watch collectors.
 
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I try to avoid all Facebook-related properties. It infuriates me that they bough WhatsApp, which is very useful, but that's the lone exception.

The only social media that I use is X, and essentially with a focus on only two topics: horse racing (an area of expertise), and "FinTwit", as there are some very useful and informative (Finance-related) accounts.

But I will pile on by saying that the X algorithms are God-awful. Laughably bad. Here's an example. I only "follow" a few accounts, and recently followed an esoteric account of a Japanese horse farm, which posts remarkably fine photographs of their horses. I was immediately inundated by Japanese accounts on my feed, many of which post only in Japanese, and a shocking number that focus on Hentai, which has absolutely nothing to do with the account that I followed. So I diligently clicked "not interested" on those unwanted posts for two or three days, and "muted" some others. Barely made a dent.

On some level I have come to expect greed as being the overriding cause of such irritating experiences, but I can't believe that there isn't also a large amount of rank incompetence.
 
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I don't really do any big public social media anymore. I find that both Facebook and IG fill me with FOMO and ended up having me spend way too much time trying to type clever responses to things distant family and friends have posted. And I don't love that the whole point of those platforms is to mine my posts for data and try to sell me things.

These days, I mostly engage with people I know on various discord servers that are centered on specific hobbies. It scratches the same itch to joke around and socialize, but it's also just with people I'm actually going to see next week for an activity.
 
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I stopped using Facebook years ago. Originally, I thought this is a nice place to see pictures and hear updates about what's going on with my family and friends. Then it turned into a cesspool of misinformation and conflict and got to the point where I hated looking at it. That was 10-15 years ago, can't imagine what it's like now. (I recently had to reactivate my account to use Facebook Marketplace, because I had some things to sell, and was told Craigslist is dead. It was a real bummer to have to use Facebook again for that purpose, I would really prefer there was a different platform to handle that kind of thing).

Anyhow when I stopped using Facebook, I switched over the Instagram. Not sure if that was before or after IG was purchased by Facebook. Anyhow, same story, for quite a while it was a nice place to share pictures with family, friends, and fellow enthusiasts (of whatever). And I have a ton of watch collectors that I follow, that follow me, and that I interact with on IG. Vintage watches got more active for me on IG than here on OF for a while, although it's shifted back here in recent years.

Long story short, I was just realizing recently that I am starting to hate looking at Instagram, just like I used to hate looking at Facebook. Most of the stuff in my feed is garbage content that is the exact opposite of why I originally wanted to be on IG, which is a nice benign escape from the daily news. I can't control what I see, there is no paid option to limit advertising, and even the ads are not ads in the normal sense, it seems like mostly endless political wars, culture wars, conflict drama BS. For a long time, the ads were just regular commercial ads, I didn't mind them so much, just tuned them out. Now it seems like the ads are all designed to get you completely worked up. I feel stressed out after looking at my feed for a few minutes and seeing all that crap.

I guess at the top of the feed there is a button where you can click on "following only", to try and limit what you see. That helps a bit I think, but you have to do it every single time you connect. I wish there was a paid option on IG where I didn't have to see all that stuff. I don't really want to leave completely because I have huge amounts of contacts, running conversations, technical information, photos, etc, all related to vintage watches.

Side note, I really appreciate this forum a lot, thank you to everyone who created and run this place. I don't mind paying a fee at all, to skip the adverts. It's like a little haven of sanity. But of course, not everyone is active on here, and IG reaches a much larger audience, so inevitably, you meet and interact with other collectors there.

I feel like social media has almost no value, or at least it's not being used in a way that has value, it seems to cultivate and engender conflict and negativity. It's really a crap situation; I don't know what it's going to take to turn things around.

Anyhow, not sure my point exactly, but was just thinking about these last few days. Curious what other people feel.
"A little haven of sanity?" At least until we get to the cats....