Co worker got a big invicta got more compliments in a day than I have in years

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I do think it's about politeness. If someone came to me bragging with a generic modern quartz (not talking about a Grand Seiko or Omega, etc. obviously), I can't just tell the person - "That's a generic watch that's horologically insignificant, common and bland. Worse yet, the movement which is made of plastic, can't be serviced and once dead you're better off getting a new watch. The strap is also generic and made of rubber, the buckle is plastic too. How accurate is that movement anyway? Because 15s a month is too much for quartz. The only good thing is that it's solar and it has chronograph. Waterproof too until the seals go bad and you can't replace them."

Instead I would say: "Looks like a great buy. And very pragmatic. It looks really useful, waterproof and all. Even has a chronograph. And it's solar so you don't have to bother changing a battery which further saves on maintenance."

For a generic mechanical watch it would be pretty similar, I wouldn't tell the person that the movement is not worth servicing and most watchmakers will probably swap it for a new one. Nor would I criticize if the glass isn't sapphire, crown is unsigned, strap is faux leather, etc.

When people brag they want positive reinforcement.
 
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I have only gotten 2.5 watch compliments in my life from non friends:
Guy in line at the commissary noticed my Speedmaster- he was wearing one too.
Female co-worker loved my Tag Carerra (but she is in comm’s and graphics so is a visual person)
Douche bag at a wine & cheese work event noticed my OPD, showed me his shiny new Sub and proceeded to tell me that mine was a fake because it didn’t “sweep”. I began to explain lower beat rate but he just had this smug look on his face. I quickly noticed the crab-balls and made a polite exit.
Christ you must've been desperate to avoid him if we checking out the poor 'ol crab's balls! 😁
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Ha ha someone resurrected the rather loquacious thread I babbled on. Funny that coworker left his wife took a job in another state he went with her as he found work in the same area. I’m back to the only watch nerd and never getting compliments which is how I liked it. One girl makes a habit of complimenting my watches as I helped her pick out a watch for her husband which he loved.
 
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Managers, and especially Directors, for some reason notice these things. 25 years ago, a corporate Director pointed out a car a manager was driving that was 3 or 4 salary grades above their pay. I knew that manager, and they had come into inherited money, but the director put their name on a chopping list because the "appearance of too high a salary" was "obvious." These types of biases are extremely petty and hurtful, but exist at every level of our existence. We must be extremely wary that others are constantly using everything about us to hurt us, whittle us down, take from us, for themselves.
 
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I never got compliments O
Managers, and especially Directors, for some reason notice these things. 25 years ago, a corporate Director pointed out a car a manager was driving that was 3 or 4 salary grades above their pay. I knew that manager, and they had come into inherited money, but the director put their name on a chopping list because the "appearance of too high a salary" was "obvious." These types of biases are extremely petty and hurtful, but exist at every level of our existence. We must be extremely wary that others are constantly using everything about us to hurt us, whittle us down, take from us, for themselves.
Yes, people are always trying to judge that based on looks. Which is stupid at best. You could obtain a really nice expensive watch without being rich - save money, inherit it, inherit something else and sell it, or just by selling many other watches you bought throughout the years.

You could have also hunted auctions for a cheaper price. Or maybe you could combine two junk watches into one good one.

But people would assume you just went into a store waving a wad of cash and bought it at the market price on a whim. As if you're buying a phone.

That's why I prefer the inconspicuous watches.