john_coburg; Hassle the hooey out of 'em!
I hassled them over a piddling amount and ultimately obtained satisfaction. It took over 30 days of hassling however. I was ultimately credited my costs, but I remain loath to shop Ebay at this point.
Here's a portion of the exchanges we had on their "help:" feature. An effective Ebay phone number is difficult to locate and is of no help at all when found and contacted.
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Hello Bryan,
We appreciate the time you have given us to review your concern for the ONEIDA Stainless Satin ACT I Set Of 5 NEW DINNER FORKS/KNIVES(*******************) sold by ************. My name is Clarence and I would like to provide you options you can consider to resolve your concern.
I understand you did not receive your item/s personally because of empty box and given your seller is an elder this is still not the experience I would like you to have as a buyer.
We most certainly would not want this to happen again in the future but in case you will need to return an item that is faulty, defective, damaged or not as described, it will be best to follow escalating the case within time frame. Let us focus on your options :
1) Get in touch with the seller for the last time so that you can try to work things out together. One of the principles that eBay stands on is that “there is good in every individual”. Successful transactions rely heavily on good communication. You can continue communicating with the seller and request for a refund.
2) You also still have the right to open a claim or dispute with the carrier.
3) I recommend exploring your external options or use any methods outside of e-bay's policy to fully maximize your buyer protection.
I trust we are able to explain everything clearly, and I am confident you next shopping experience will be worry free.
Sincerely,
Clarence M.
eBay Customer Support
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Following, in reverse order are a portion of the piecemeal replies required because of the stunted chat line help message system. I was credited after the final message at the bottom, sent with a second series of photographs.
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Ok, we're "focusing on our options here.
"1) Get in touch with the seller for the last time so that you can try to work things out together. One of the principles that eBay stands on is that “there is good in every individual”. Successful transactions rely heavily on good communication. You can continue communicating with the seller and request for a refund."
Unacceptable. I have contacted seller for my last time weeks ago. You refund me now and you contact the seller to work things out.
"2) You also still have the right to open a claim or dispute with the carrier."
I've already made the attempt and the post office informed me that it was up to the shipper, your seller, to open a claim and that I could not open the claim.
"3) I recommend exploring your external options or use any methods outside of e-bay's policy to fully maximize your buyer protection.
I recommend that you explore your policies and the honoring of the protections you claim to extend to customers. I'm receiving no protections at present.
Again: I received an empty mailer with no merchandise within. Seller became evasive and reluctant to provide a refund by the last messages we exchanged. During a telephone conversation held with an Ebay representative, Ebay stepped in and promised to resolve it and refund me, but then mistakenly instructed me to return the merchandise. There was no merchandise. I'm out $68.74 with nothing to show for it and Ebay is contributing to the loss by: not providing proper refund, closing my dispute, and not dealing with the seller.
What are you going to do about it?
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I have not been refunded for an order No. ***************. Both seller and more importantly Ebay have botched this from the beginning as may be seen in a review of my message log.
Ebay told me:
"You can continue communicating with the seller and request for a refund."
I have already been communication with this seller and will not further communicate with this seller.
I expect Ebay to honor their commitment to their customers now and refund my costs associated with this failed transaction.
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Do not foist me off with a canned reply stating that this issue is closed. It's not closed! If it is then I intend to rate seller poorly. Furthermore, I am going to rate Ebay poorly within the hobby forums I participate. I never received merchandise! It is time for Ebay to refund me. Ebay's "help" system is no help at all. It is obviously designed to deliberately thwart rather than help customers. If this is the way Ebay treats its buyers then I must assume that the Ebay venue is too risky to warrant my continued use Ebay.
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It's apparent from this obstructive "help" function that Ebay just wants me to go away and accept the loss of $68.74.
Seller botched the transaction by providing a wholly inadequate shipping container. Ebay botched resolving this dispute by mistakenly assuming I had merchandise to return. I received an empty mailer tube in my mail box. There were no contents. I've sent photos to Ebay. I can send them again.
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"Buyers and sellers permit us to make final decisions about all cases, including appeals"
I realize that I have no effective recourse with Ebay in obtaining a refund for the items I never received. I do have control over my Ebay account however, which was opened in 1999. I can discontinue using that account. I also can derive $68.74 worth of satisfaction in future by denouncing Ebay, the financial risks associated with its use, and the lack of any real customer service provided by Ebay.
I'm only a squeaky wheel here for so long. If this is not resolved to my satisfaction by the weekend then I intend to leave poor feedback about your seller, ***********. I further intend to to discourage those who would consider using Ebay. I will adopt the habit of disparaging Ebay, its costs, its management, and its lack of customer support, on internet hobby forums that I enjoy frequenting.
I have been a good Ebay customer and championed Ebay since my first buying experiences with Ebay. I have defended Ebay in internet hobby forums when people disparaged it. I have never before given a bad review to the many Ebay sellers that I've encountered through the years.
Does Ebay need for me to continue as a buyer and a friend, or is Ebay willing to accept that I will attempt to drive business away from it going forward?
For $68.74?!
This is the empty mailer exactly as received when the post office delivered it to our home address.
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