Am I a bad eBay buyer?

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I won an auction for a watch listed without movement shots. Usually I probably wouldn't bid on a watch without movement shots, but as this was for a 168.025 Tool 107 front loader I accepted that the seller wouldn't be able to include pictures without taking the watch to someone to open it.

After winning the auction I wrote to the seller saying that under the circumstances I would expect him to accept a return if either a) the watch did not contain the correct movement, or b) the movement was in such poor condition that major expense would be incurred fixing it. The seller had described the watch as working but losing about a minute a day. Enquiries here came led me to conclude that while there may be need for some parts replacement, there should be no major concerns and that's why I decided to bid.

The seller wrote back saying he was cancelling the sale because my conditions meant it was more like a consumer sale than an ebay auction. I replied saying I was disappointed and pointed out that ebay would almost certainly side with me if I wanted to return it on the basis of misdescription. My argument being that while failure to show movement shots does not constitute misdescription, it also means the seller is unable to provide a sufficient description.

So was I wrong to seek his acceptance of my terms before paying for the watch? Am I not playing the game fairly? In one sense I will accept I was being a bit cheeky in that I could have asked him for such an assurance before bidding, but my guess is he would have just said not to bid, which in hindsight is fair enough, but at the time I didn't think there'd be a problem.
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Losing a minute a day needs a service i think but i feel you should have set these conditions prior to bidding but if it is listed as "no return" then the seller does not have to accept your conditions afterwards, and can cancel the deal in my view. Him not accepting your conditions is a tell sign for me the watch has troubles so i think you dogged one here.
 
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You sound like the sort of buyer that no ebay seller needs.
Maybe, but I've just seen the watch has been relisted starting at £400 more than my winning bid, so I suspect he's not the kind of seller an ebay buyer needs either. Looks like he was disappointed with my winning bid and more than happy to take the opportunity to get out of it.
 
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A buyer can set any conditions they see fit, as can the seller, but these should be clearly set out and agreed by both parties prior to purchase IMO.
 
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In these type of nuanced situations, I like to consult with Elmer Fudd.

 
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Looks like he was disappointed with my winning bid and more than happy to take the opportunity to get out of it.
or he tries to scare away certain buyers 😉
 
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As an ebay seller myself,I don't like to get a return from an item I sold,so I always make sure my watches have all the photos needed and I try to be accurate on my description!So far I have never had a return on 40-50 sells I've made (not only watches)! Hopefully it continues like that!
 
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yeah, I agree with @Ron_W -- do all this question/answer thing BEFORE you bid. if you get a reply like "please do not bid" then you know there are some sketchy details of the watch which are not being disclosed fully & that you should walk away no matter how tempting.
but to bid & then put conditions, not cool...
 
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Personally I think you should have bought it without the extra conditions. You are a experience buyer and you knew what you're walking into. Buying a watch without movement shots often means you can get it a bit cheaper. Especially with frontloaders you know how hard it is to open a watch. No guts no glory. And sometimes you loose. That's all in the game.
 
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Personally I think you should have bought it without the extra conditions. You are a experience buyer and you knew what you're walking into. Buying a watch without movement shots often means you can get it a bit cheaper. Especially with frontloaders you know how hard it is to open a watch. No guts no glory. And sometimes you loose. That's all in the game.
Yes, I think this is fair. As are other comments.
 
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yeah, I agree with @Ron_W -- do all this question/answer thing BEFORE you bid. if you get a reply like "please do not bid" then you know there are some sketchy details of the watch which are not being disclosed fully & that you should walk away no matter how tempting.
but to bid & then put conditions, not cool...

Or the seller has described it to the best of their limited knowledge. Has told all possible buyers it’s running very badly, they are looking for an easy and final sale and they don’t want to have to deal with the hassle/risk involved in buyers returning.
 
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Maybe, but I've just seen the watch has been relisted starting at £400 more than my winning bid, so I suspect he's not the kind of seller an ebay buyer needs either. Looks like he was disappointed with my winning bid and more than happy to take the opportunity to get out of it.
He wouldn't have needed to re-list the watch if you hadn't acted like a dick.
 
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I’m sorry eBay would probably side with the seller. Basically if you admit to opening it, you own it.
 
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I sold a Stocker and Yale watch to some guy as "no return". Yup, he wanted to return it. First he said it was too hard to wind. Then he said it didn't work. I told him if you send it back and my watchmaker determines you damaged it, you're not getting a refund.

Never heard from him again.
 
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Also, had the seller included pictures showing the movement was correct and in good condition he would likely have sold the watch for a higher price.

As such, I think your terms were somewhat unreasonable as you likely paid a lower price due to no movement shots but wanted the security that comes with having movement shots.
 
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I’m sorry eBay would probably side with the seller. Basically if you admit to opening it, you own it.
what??
which world do you live in? 😕
if ebay side with the seller, the world would he a better place....😉
ebay would 99.5% side with the buyer.....
read some forum posts about how honest sellers have been shafted.......
 
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He wouldn't have needed to re-list the watch if you hadn't acted like a dick.
Re-listing is not a big hassle. About 5 clicks. He could easily have said "no, not acceptable to me", then I would have had to decide whether to take my chances or not. He didn't do that. Instead he read my request and immediately ended the sale. Not as clear cut as me being a dick about it.
 
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Re-listing is not a big hassle. About 5 clicks. He could easily have said "no, not acceptable to me", then I would have had to decide whether to take my chances or not. He didn't do that. Instead he read my request and immediately ended the sale. Not as clear cut as me being a dick about it.

The problem is that eBay in general is a buyers marketplace - the whole business fails if there are no sellers, however the company has made the business decision that buyers are all that matters and that they are free to screw over sellers with impunity. All changes that have been made on ebay have been in favor of buyers - effectively you flagged yourself as a "problem buyer" by emailing him. He is going to see it that you are laying the groundwork for a SNAD (Significantly Not As Described) return which is a good way to get a huge ding against your ebay seller record. It's MUCH easier to cancel the sale and not have to worry about poor feedback or getting a not as described return.
 
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what??
which world do you live in? 😕
if ebay side with the seller, the world would he a better place....😉
ebay would 99.5% side with the buyer.....
read some forum posts about how honest sellers have been shafted.......
So have many honest buyers. I see it all the time.

You cannot change the fact that seller always has the advantage of having the item in their hands.

Back to our regularly scheduled post…it seems to me that this seller saw trouble ahead and made a business decision to risk his feedback rating and not go through with the sale.

Who is right here and who was wrong, I really don’t know.
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