Advice appreciated: new member contacted me for sale

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They still take cheques where you live? Most retailers (and certainly supermarkets) in the UK haven't taken cheque payments for over ten years.

Oh absolutely. I think that most retailers tend to be very customer service oriented in much of the US. So if someone wants to pay by check, they will take the check. They will not only take checks as payment, but I have seen people write checks for more than the amount of purchase and get cash back.
 
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Oh absolutely. I think that most retailers tend to be very customer service oriented in much of the US. So if someone wants to pay by check, they will take the check. They will not only take checks as payment, but I have seen people write checks for more than the amount of purchase and get cash back.
That used to be fairly common in the UK when cheques were accepted, and survives now as cashback with debit card purchases. Lifeline for my parents, who hate using cash machines.
 
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I write about four or five checks a month ..... property taxes, renewal of car registrations, lawn care, pest control, places that just don't accept cards or electronic payments. everything else is on auto pay. Older people often still use checks, just by habit. I have a couple of friends who still write checks for everything, they are just more comfortable writing a check for the water, gas, electricity, insurance, etc. I remember doing that in the 70's, 80's and 90's until electronic cash payments via the internet became possible. I'd set aside one or two evenings a month to write checks, stuff the envelope, put the stamp on, and drop in the mail box at work. I hated it but it had to be done, but one thing it did was force you to know how much money you had in the checking account and what your bill situation was......and that's not a bad thing to know. Today it's 'charge, charge, charge' and worry about the bill later.
 
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Interesting to think that (as reflected in insurance costs for classic vehicles), you might not be, actually. You are probably taking a higher risk of being injured or losing your life if you actually have an accident, but your chances of having an accident overall may well be considerably lower, for many reasons.

Agree, I think the classic car insurance companies have figured out that you really don't want to wreck your classic car or hurt yourself or others.
I own several cars and have 3 that are on collector car policies, and I figure they know I'm very unlikely to wreck one of those cars.
I bet their profit margins are pretty high on those collector car policies.
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Agree, I think the classic car insurance companies have figured out that you really don't want to wreck your classic car or hurt yourself or others.
I own several cars and have 3 that are on collector car policies, and I figure they know I'm very unlikely to wreck one of those cars.
I bet their profit margins are pretty high on those collector car policies.
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Here is my 1965 Corvette that I insure through Hagerty agreed-value insurance.
Never had a claim on it.
Been insured for almost 20 years.
And, I'm always extra careful when I drive to the local cars & coffee gathering.
I think this is typical of collector car insurance owners.

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I'm always extra careful when I drive to the local cars & coffee gathering.

For someone who collects vintage watches one would think you could swing the cost of a newer car no?
 
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For someone who collects vintage watches one would think you could swing the cost of a newer car no?

No, new cars are too big a drop appreciation wise.
I buy them, but can't recommend them to others looking for a deal.

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No, new cars are too big a drop appreciation wise.
I buy them, but can't recommend them to others looking for a deal.

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I guess the joke flew over your head 😁
 
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I guess the joke flew over your head 😁

Yes, over my head.

I am a simple person in a world of many other more accomplished people.

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Yes, over my head.

I am a simple person in a world of many other more accomplished people.

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Well I got two college degrees and I ain't got no corvette so like they say in Brooklyn "who's better than you?" 😁
 
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Well I got two college degrees and I ain't got no corvette so like they say in Brooklyn "who's better than you?" 😁

Interesting analogy.
In terms of watches, my only "bucket list" item is the Omega Speedmaster Pro Tin Tin.
I don't know why I like that one, but I do.
I need all the pieces to it, the box, the abstract from the archives, etc.

I already have two really nice Speedy's, but if the right Tin Tin became available, I'd have to somehow convince my better half to let me buy it.

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if the right Tin Tin became available, I'd have to somehow convince my better half to let me buy it.

Should be an easy sell to your wife, as watches are smaller and take up less space than collector cars 😁
 
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Should be an easy sell to your wife, as watches are smaller and take up less space than collector cars 😁
And so far, the Mayor of London isn't including them in his ultra low emissions zone charge.
 
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Interesting to think that (as reflected in insurance costs for classic vehicles), you might not be, actually. You are probably taking a higher risk of being injured or losing your life if you actually have an accident, but your chances of having an accident overall may well be considerably lower, for many reasons.

True; I hope. 😉

Most people do not drive 1960s vehicles as daily drivers, but a minority actually do. In my case, the car is kept in a rural area and that is where I drive it on weekends and when the weather is pleasant. Still, the steering wheel is sometimes referred to as "the spearing wheel," as it has a non-collapsible steel rod from wheel to steering box. Nearly all of us who grew up back then have somehow managed to be here today.

I take your point though.

I am more mindful when I am driving the Healey

 
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True; I hope. 😉

Most people do not drive 1960s vehicles as daily drivers, but a minority actually do. In my case, the car is kept in a rural area and that is where I drive it on weekends and when the weather is pleasant. Still, the steering wheel is sometimes referred to as "the spearing wheel," as it has a non-collapsible steel rod from wheel to steering box. Nearly all of us who grew up back then have somehow managed to be here today.

I take your point though.

I am more mindful when I am driving the Healey

What a lovely car.

I drive a 1973 MGB GT V8. The MGB does have a collapsible steering column, or rather, it did when new. The collapsability consisted of a nylon bolt in the middle of the steel steering column. It's no longer available, and it's not uncommon to see the two parts of the steering column welded together. 🤬 I did in fact have a horrible accident in mine years ago on a flooded road that had iced over during the night, and hadn't melted by the time I and two other cars got to it, and consider myself very fortunate to have been able to open the door and get out and get my passenger out and then have the two of us looking at the wreckage of the car, but with us unscathed. A function of the MGB being one of the first cars to incorporate crumple zones, together with thirty five year old inertia reel seatbelts that did their job perfectly - can never understand people who obsess over whether seatbelts are "original". A nine month rebuild followed.
 
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Well. I dont think my bank will return money after a transfer unless somebody can proof I'm frauduleus. And even then it would be very hard I suppose. I really dont think it's possible to get your money back.

With paypal... well paypal sucks IMHO for sellers. Although I still sell from time to time through paypal but I try to avoid it. The reason is this...

A couple of years ago I've sold a redialed connie through paypal. I stated clearly in the add it was a redial. The watch came from a tropical climate so probably the dial was effected in the past. I also said this in the add. I asked a much lower price (i think it was around EUR 500). In that time you had 180 days to start a claim with paypal. He started his claim after app. 177 days. He said he did not know it was a redial. I said to paypal the guy was crazy and I send the original add to paypal and I showed them I was completely transparant about this. Nevertheless paypal refunded. I said to the guy from paypal that he's a complete $%# and I would do everything in my power to avoid paypal in the future. That's why I'm selling on chrono. I hate paypal.

I've been using Paypal for 20 years and stories like this make me want to pack my bags and get the heck out of dodge while the gettin' is good.

Can I ask how long you had been using Paypal when this happened? I had some random hold put on funds in my account recently, and when I called to ask about them, I also asked if they would consider my flawless 20 year history if anyone ever filed a dispute claiming I had send them an empty box, rock, or some such thing. They said they would factor in my history into their evaluation of the dispute, and that "if I were sending people empty boxes, I would have likely seen a claim before". Still, I'm thinking it's better to not push much good fortune much further and find other means of selling than Ebay / Paypal.

I'm assuming in your circumstances, the buyer had to return the watch to you, correct?
 
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ahaha I like similar guys as you when I'm hunting in the NYC flea markets and 47th st where cash is king. I always prevail with my pocket full of dough. Happens all the time.

When the pandemic is over, I'd be happy to buy you a nice lunch in exchange for a short tour of some of your favorite 47th St shops. I bought my wife's engagement ring, and then our wedding rings, from a jeweler there a few years ago. (I live in Virginia, but am in NY often for work during more normal times.)
 
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When I first moved to Aarhus, I had no habit of paying with cards but with cash until I realized I was being seen as some kind of criminal. Everyone looked at me strangely and it was not clear to anyone why I was walking with so much money in my pocket. ::facepalm1::

Aarhus is lovely. We visited Denmark on our honeymoon, and I was surprised how cashless it was. We spent most of our time in Copenhagen, which was great, but I particularly enjoyed our visit to Aarhus.
 
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I've been using Paypal for 20 years and stories like this make me want to pack my bags and get the heck out of dodge while the gettin' is good.

Can I ask how long you had been using Paypal when this happened? I had some random hold put on funds in my account recently, and when I called to ask about them, I also asked if they would consider my flawless 20 year history if anyone ever filed a dispute claiming I had send them an empty box, rock, or some such thing. They said they would factor in my history into their evaluation of the dispute, and that "if I were sending people empty boxes, I would have likely seen a claim before". Still, I'm thinking it's better to not push much good fortune much further and find other means of selling than Ebay / Paypal.

I'm assuming in your circumstances, the buyer had to return the watch to you, correct?
I was using paypal for years. But I've never had any problems with buyers. If the buyer contacted my within two weeks or so I would have taken the watch back without any problems. But after 5 months!?!

Anyway, the best part of the story I forgot. When he shipped it back the watch was'nt working anymore. So I went to a watchmaker to get a full evaluation with costs of repair and I send it to paypal. I asked them what now. Does a seller have any protection? They did nothing so I said to them.... go $%#@. Well, you know what I said....😁 I left it there. Later on I've sold the watch for EUR 650. With full disclosure.... again
 
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Checks are still quite popular here in Ct as well. We use them to pay all our household bills.

Back in the day when I was in business it was amazing the number of customers who would post you unsigned cheques on a regular basis 🤦
Some even complained when it was suggested they should move to a cash account 😁