Well... Piss on it

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They say every man (person?) will have three careers.


At the end of 2019 I had, in fact, reached mine. After almost 30 years in the restaurant business as a waiter in high end (expensive) restaurants, I was done. My mental state and fathers health issues caused me to resign. Little did I know that the world was about to flip upside down, but that is part of the equation, isn't it?
After 6 months of reflection, I started to think about what would be next. For years on my way to work, I would drive by one of California's most beautiful coastal state parks. Often, there was a sign offering an opportunity to the right applicant for a position at the park. I applied and was hired.
The job is an entry level position in park maintenance. I have been around or in construction since I was a teenager so I felt comfortable in applying.
After three months on the job, I had lost 20 pounds and 2 inches on waist. I have muscle definition again!. The real improvement... My mental health.
Turns out getting up before dawn and seeing the sun rise before you work outside all day is therapeutic.
Working for the State of California, I will not get rich, but as it turns out I am richer, healthier and happier.

On a side note, I just got a promotion to a position that normally takes a couple of years to get to.
Cool!
 
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I absolutely understand the OP's position, and think I may be getting close. I'm 60 1/2. I just realized that what I thought was a 5-year vestment process is actually 10 years. I cannot see my self working to 70 1/2, so, without much chance for a retirement package I suppose I can leave when I want to. My wife and I have good savings, but I still fear "running out" in later years and then what?

All we need is a little house on a stream without too many neighbors. Oh, and easy access to a nice city. This is what I tell my wife fairly regularly. I wonder if it will happen.
 
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All we need is a little house on a stream without too many neighbors. Oh, and easy access to a nice city.

good aims, similar to the mines when I was searching for a new property.... good luck!! Jo
 
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Congrats, @Fritz ! And a timely email to read at 12:35 am, just as I logged onto my home computer after having to go in the office at midnight to get the server restarted. One joy of being a co-owner of a very small business is also being the whole IT department. Also timely because this evening my 79 year old dad decided to retire. I'll toast you and my dad tomorrow night 😎

I'm happy to recommend a cloud service provider if you want to ditch that pesky on-prem 😀
 
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Well done @Fritz and congratulations!

I've still got a few years of work ahead before I consider retirement being in my 40s but I'm planning... I'm still more than happy with work but we have already agreed if/when the time comes to simply sell up and downsize as currently the mortgage is our only major outgoing and we already know where we would like to move to here in the UK.

Once a mortgage is out of the equation it really opens up the options on life/work balance and your choices in what's important.
 
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Good for you Fritz & I wish you and your wife a long and happy retirement together. I’m starting to give my retirement plans more & more thought since Covid raised its head ,and totally changed the way I had previously worked for the last 35 years along with millions of others .My work life balance has changed so much for the better and I now WFH full time, with the occasional site visit & trip to the office . I’m in my mid fifties now & I'm looking to go into semi retirement in about 5-7 years , my wife stopped working about 10 years ago and hasn’t regretted it for one day and our quality of life is the best it’s ever been . We both worked all the hours we could when we were younger and invested in several properties back in the late 80s ,that has set us up for a income when I retire . And as a side note , I mentioned this topic the my father this afternoon and asked him how he is enjoying his retirement ,he is 76 & still fit and active ,he retired when he was 68 .His reply was , I have one regret and expecting him to say I miss the hustle and bustle or the camaraderie , he replied I should have retired years earlier than I did , but was a bit afraid of the unknown .
 
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Good for you Fritz & I wish you and your wife a long and happy retirement together. I’m starting to give my retirement plans more & more thought since Covid raised its head ,and totally changed the way I had previously worked for the last 35 years along with millions of others .My work life balance has changed so much for the better and I now WFH full time, with the occasional site visit & trip to the office . I’m in my mid fifties now & I'm looking to go into semi retirement in about 5-7 years , my wife stopped working about 10 years ago and hasn’t regretted it for one day and our quality of life is the best it’s ever been . We both worked all the hours we could when we were younger and invested in several properties back in the late 80s ,that has set us up for a income when I retire . And as a side note , I mentioned this topic the my father this afternoon and asked him how he is enjoying his retirement ,he is 76 & still fit and active ,he retired when he was 68 .His reply was , I have one regret and expecting him to say I miss the hustle and bustle or the camaraderie , he replied I should have retired years earlier than I did , but was a bit afraid of the unknown .
I went at 63. My friends who were already out warned me that walking away from that paycheck was a disconcerting experience. Once you get past that, no problemo (if you planned correctly).
 
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Alright alright....knock this stuff off.
My wife retired at 54.
I have several years so we can live the "extravagant" life. (i.e. no dog food diets)

That Southern France version looked pretty.

Sonoma County Ca will be the spot. When we are ready I am counting on everyone there moving to to Arizona by then.
 
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if you have prepared in advance.
I will not get rich, but as it turns out I am richer

I am a compulsive planner (a listmaker on that damn Meyers Briggs psycho thingy) and was ready, set, go at 55 because my trade union had a super package to go early.
We used to be called asbestos workers but changed our name due to some bad press.

Doug said it , "be prepared" !!!
Not only financially, but with what the hell you are going to do with your time.
Boredom will lead you down evil paths, make sure you have a plan!

Hobbies (OF was a blessing), family, part-time work ( I was a cart boy for the ladies golf league), all are so much fun and so damn much more rewarding than a career.

The king, @kingsrider , has nailed it, riches aren't a number at the bottom of a financial statement, they are a feeling in your soul.

Retirement is just as busy as work.......but you get to choose!
 
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2017 sucked. Key people to me had left the company and their replacements were not pleasant. I could tell I was burning out. My doctor had been on my case for years that my global job was killing me. My financial advisor had been telling me for two years, that I had enough FU money to go retire. 2018 was better but I managed to volunteer for a package. Stuck around till April 2019. Never looked back. Congrats. ( Only downside is that Mrs S, put her foot down on the watch buying). Down 40 lbs, blood sugar under control, and loving life.

Sat here today since 6am playing catch up on work emails after a couple of travel and commute days..... but not for much longer. I had a few major challenges in 2020 (On top of the obvious) and finally told my work to stuff it in March. I have been counting off the days and leave at the end of June (holiday from the 14th). I plan a long sabbatical.....which could lead to retirement or something different. I will have to cut my cloth a bit thinner but life, health and fun is worth more. Companies / technology are squeezing the fun out of work.
Having said all this I am off to buy a watch tomorrow (I promised my wife it will be my last one / I am still working …. she just laughed at me so I was not convincing :0)

@Frittz - Bonne chance for all of us.
 
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After I retired, I undertook the volunteer editor job for an antique car club I belonged (past tense) to. I was a babe in the woods to undertake a job that involved putting together 10 36 page news letters per year. The first few issues were torture. But by the end of the first year, I had my sea legs, and was enjoying the job. Then I bought a Microsoft Publisher program, and was looking forward to putting out a better newsletter, easier. That is until I ran into a new president! He was getting complaints (anonymous to me) about my rah rah attitude, my tendency to try to engage the membership in providing material. Made it through that year, then ran into the biggest a _ _ _ _ e I have ever met as a president, and an equally vocal p _ _ _ k who went out of his way to brow beat me, and criticize me, the newsletter, and the job I put my heart and soul into over three years. 90% of the membership were enthused with the job I was doing, and the newsletter. But enough is enough! I told the president to stuff the newsletter and my membership! Gonzo!
 
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So last friday was my last day at work. The engineering group called a large emergency meeting when they belatedly realized that I was the only one who knew how the new production line due to start up this summer goes together or understands the theory of how the equipment even functions. They spent half the meeting arguing over how to proceed while I sat there remembering that this is why I had quit.

so I did the only thing I could, dragged out my insulated water bottle and spent the rest of the meeting quietly enjoying a nice cold lager.

now that I think of it... it was a pretty good meeting.
 
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After having spent a good deal of time in a couple dozen “developing countries,” I can only add that we all seem to have been very fortunate to have good jobs we enjoy or jobs we didn’t love that afforded us all we need and much more (judging by the watches I see here). If I were a praying man, I’d say a little thanks each day for being born lucky enough to be in a place where living well is not a dream. Enjoy your break. And none of us should ever forget how most humans on this planet exist. We all won the lottery by comparison.
 
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After having spent a good deal of time in a couple dozen “developing countries,” I can only add that we all seem to have been very fortunate to have good jobs we enjoy or jobs we didn’t love that afforded us all we need and much more (judging by the watches I see here). If I were a praying man, I’d say a little thanks each day for being born lucky enough to be in a place where living well is not a dream. Enjoy your break. And none of us should ever forget how most humans on this planet exist. We all won the lottery by comparison.
How very true!
 
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I think it was last Thursday I got home late from work, so oblivious I didn’t even notice an extra car in my driveway. I went in my home and blindly went about my routine of feeding the cats. Heard a female voice say hello, it was my wife’s best friend who was her maid of honor at our wedding. Haven’t seen her in a good five years. She looked great, retired at 33 years old after putting in ten years as a CPA for a hedge fund. I guess the six figure bonuses add up quick. She had come to our area to do some hiking. Of course I was right in the middle of redoing my kitchen cabinets so my house looks destroyed and I had plastic hanging every where to catch the dust and paint. It looked like I was set up for a mafia hit but whatever.

I am very happy for her. Just a nice honest girl who came to the US the same time my wife did, poor family that sacrificed to get her here, both she and my wife earned academic scholarships on their own merit. It’s nice to see people enjoy retirement and then the lucky few who things work out and they can do it 20 or 30 years before most people. @Fritz I hope you are able to enjoy your entitlement as much as our friend has. She even opened a yoga studio because she wanted to stay active. I guess that’s always an option if you get bored.
 
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Careful there -- my wife easily puts in >40 hours/ week as a yoga instructor. The home studio hasn't reopened yet from Covid, but very soon that will add to her workload (extra cleaning, etc. compared to what had been typical). She works like a dog and nets below what is considered a 'living wage'. It's a labor of love, and much more fulfilling to her than the corporate world she was in for 20 years. But it is NOT an easy way to get any meaningful supplemental income. I think it only works as a good retirement gig if you are a very top/ senior teacher and people from all over want to take classes from you versus the other 1000s of instructors who are now online. A handful of private students for one or two sessions per week pays better and takes less preparation than 12-15 classes of 5-15 people.