I did mark clearly on the forms that the fees were to be paid by the recipient, yet they missed to do that. To add to the problems, i had the parcel collected by FedEx from my work address, so when i first refused to pay the US customs on the buyer's behalf, FedEx threatened my employer (large multinational company) that they'd close their FedEx account!
Even though it was made clear that it was a private shipment, nothing to do with the company i work for. That's why i eventually had to agree to pay the customs, to work problems..
Luckily the whole nightmare had a happy ending, when i asked the buyer nicely and he paid me the entire amount. A real gentleman from Dallas, Texas.
I couldn't believe this could happen!
Mind you, it was during the Xmas holidays, the recipient received the parcel on the 24th, not sure if it had anything to do with the customs procedure..(rushed, skipped, etc.)