Archer
··Omega Qualified WatchmakerI turn 40 next month... Personally I always found it quite a gentle term especially for the internet. Gender neutral and inclusive of all ages. Better than gents, chaps, people, peeps or other specific monikers.
To be honest your response will probably stop me coming back.. Shame we could have been friends..
Don't let it get to you - it's baffling why someone would find that offensive, and I doubt there are a great number here who would to be honest.