Assuming that the reluming was not attributable to any error by the watchmaker -- let's say for the sake of argument that it just crumbled when the hands were removed -- it's still my opinion that he should have contacted the OP and explained what happened before he proceeded with the relume. The OP is the client and the owner of the watch, not the watchmaker.
Im guessing the lume issue was unexpected and he did it without extra charge to fix the problem. You could ask him.
I agree. Assume he did call and ask, what would you have done in my situation? Leave the hands as is, with the missing parts of lume if that's the case, or tell him to relume with a color match? Talking about color match btw. Match the color to what exactly? To look old, or to match the patina of the dial? Maybe that's the same thing of course.
Sorry if i come across as a rookie, but I think it's better to know what I am asking for when i eventually go back to have this sorted.
Thank you! 馃榾
IMHO I believe most here would want the missing lume replaced.
The original lume would no longer glow, so replaced with a non-luminous complimentary filling material is the most common solution.
Whilst it is common for the lume in hands and lume pips to age differently (as yours did) I would probably be requesting the fill to be matching the lume pips at the end of the indices.