Help with birthday gift

Finally a sensible response.

If he's wanted one for 10 years then he knows what he wants.

The thing about Speedmasters is that used, vintage, are great watches. Many people prefer older watches. Your husband might want to get one himself someday even after you buy him a new watch. It's easy to get sucked into the history of these wonderful watches.

While a used watch makes a great gift and can even be a better buy, for a present on a significant date, a new watch is probably a better choice.

This watch is going to be with him the rest of his life, possibly 50 or more years. The steel is going to be smoothed by his skin, with scratches and knicks that will be permanent reminders of a long life. He will likely pass it on to a new generation who will also treasure it. You won't get this kind of return from a mortgage payment.

I bought myself a new Speedmaster for my retirement. I later wore it to my mother's funeral. No possession I own means more to me.

A used watch coming from you will be as special as any gift. He will treasure it no less than a new watch. But if you are able to purchase a new watch, it might be an extra layer of meaning.

New Speedmasters are a bit more expensive than previous versions but they are fantastic watches. They have new technology that make them exceptionally great watches while also including design features from the early moom watches.

If you have a choice, buy the one with a bracelet. They are a bit more than the leather strap but a lot cheaper than trying to buy a bracelet separately later. He can still buy his own leather strap later as he wants to modify things. Straps are not much money.

Life is short.

Best of luck with your decision. Regardless of whether you decide to buy a watch or reduce the mortgage, you have all of our respect and best wishes for a happy birthday celebration and a long and happy marriage.

Cheers.