slique12
·Hi all,
Slightly long read but I feel this needs context. If you want to get to the summary, I've added a tl;dr below.
Five years ago, I bought a watch on eBay that was sold by an out of state watchmaker based in Portsmouth, New Hampshire. His business card was in the box and since I was looking for a watchmaker at the time we decided to connect. His rates were very fair but the tradeoff was slower turnaround times which was acceptable to me. Initially, everything went smoothly, and his email replies were always polite, detailed and prompt.
In the summer of 2018, I sent him a couple watches that needed work. As expected, things were a bit slow, but I was kept in the loop. Eventually though the emails became less frequent, and I was asked to check in every 3-6 months. I've since worked with other watchmakers and have realized that an email every 3-6 months is perhaps a bit unusual but regardless, I heeded that advice. Eventually in the summer of 2020 (two years later) I was sent one of those watches back in good order. The other, however, was still in his possession and I was informed that it would be fixed shortly.
Again, I tried to get updates every quarter but this time my emails went completely unanswered. In early 2021 he emailed back stating a personal matter was delaying things on his end and that he would fix the watch and send it shortly. Months passed, and after more unanswered emails, I was at my wits end as the watch had essentially sat with him for the better part of four years. I demanded the watch be returned and funds be refunded (I had paid for work done to the watch in 2017 but those issues were never resolved which is why the watch went back). In my frustration, I didn't check the amount I had paid him years ago and mistakenly asked for a larger refund. He took serious offense to that situation, and despite my apology and request to simply ship the watch as-is with me covering shipping costs has decided to completely ignore my emails.
Any advice or thoughts on how to proceed?
tl;dr: Out of state watchmaker has stopped responding and doesn't care to ship my watch back.
Slightly long read but I feel this needs context. If you want to get to the summary, I've added a tl;dr below.
Five years ago, I bought a watch on eBay that was sold by an out of state watchmaker based in Portsmouth, New Hampshire. His business card was in the box and since I was looking for a watchmaker at the time we decided to connect. His rates were very fair but the tradeoff was slower turnaround times which was acceptable to me. Initially, everything went smoothly, and his email replies were always polite, detailed and prompt.
In the summer of 2018, I sent him a couple watches that needed work. As expected, things were a bit slow, but I was kept in the loop. Eventually though the emails became less frequent, and I was asked to check in every 3-6 months. I've since worked with other watchmakers and have realized that an email every 3-6 months is perhaps a bit unusual but regardless, I heeded that advice. Eventually in the summer of 2020 (two years later) I was sent one of those watches back in good order. The other, however, was still in his possession and I was informed that it would be fixed shortly.
Again, I tried to get updates every quarter but this time my emails went completely unanswered. In early 2021 he emailed back stating a personal matter was delaying things on his end and that he would fix the watch and send it shortly. Months passed, and after more unanswered emails, I was at my wits end as the watch had essentially sat with him for the better part of four years. I demanded the watch be returned and funds be refunded (I had paid for work done to the watch in 2017 but those issues were never resolved which is why the watch went back). In my frustration, I didn't check the amount I had paid him years ago and mistakenly asked for a larger refund. He took serious offense to that situation, and despite my apology and request to simply ship the watch as-is with me covering shipping costs has decided to completely ignore my emails.
Any advice or thoughts on how to proceed?
tl;dr: Out of state watchmaker has stopped responding and doesn't care to ship my watch back.

