They say never meet your heroes...

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Phil Collins. Three times.

Every single time he could not have been nicer and calm. A true gentleman and music legend.
 
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Another odd encounter was with Martin Sheen about 25 years ago- on the phone. I worked at a music/video rental store when I was in college and he had unreturned videos, so I called to inquire. We spoke for about 5 minutes (he answered the phone, I didn’t get his “people”) and he was polite, apologetic, and eager to resolve the issue- he was just a “normal” person. It forever earned my respect for him.
The true indicator of character is how one treats those in the service industries when nobody is watching.
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Well, I'm impressed by all the celebrity meetings. I can really only think of a handful of times I've even seen a celebrity in normal life and I can't recall ever having a conversation with a famous actor, musician, or athlete. I sat next to the congressman from the next district on a plane once, and he was very down-to-earth and wonky. I liked him. He was studying Spanish flash cards and he was a good listener. He was swept out of office in the 2018 blue wave.

Would Nobel Prize laureates qualify as heroes? I've met at least a dozen (Chemistry and Physics) and know several reasonably well. As you would expect, they are all quite normal and humble people, who continue to be enthusiastic about science and not content to rest on past successes. Notably, every single one of them is incredibly passionate about educating and supporting the next generation of scientists.
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Two encounters for me. The first happened when I was in high school. Jackie Robinson was in our city, speaking at a number of events, including in an assembly at our high school. We were given an opportunity to greet him after the event. I asked him for his autograph which he was very gracious about doing so, as he was with everyone he met. A friend of mine was a Philadelphia Phillies fan.....particularly of Robin Roberts. He owned a game worn cap of Roberts. I gave him the autograph. Fast forward, and I told our baseball fan son about the autograph. 🫨

Our son was a member of a boy’s choir many years ago. The choir was about to celebrate its 25th anniversary, and a banquet was planned. They were looking for a headliner for the event. A friend of mine was a high school pal of Alan Monk, baritone star of the San Francisco Opera, and the Metropolitan opera. He was living in New York. I got his phone number, and called him, asking if he would be the headliner at the banquet. We would cover his return air fare. He was delighted to accept as his mother lived in our city. I asked about his fee. He was happy to have his air fare covered. The event was immensely successful. Alan sang with our boys choir, and was an interesting and charming speaker. Quite warm and down to earth. After high school, he sold ties in a local Hudson’s Bay store. Hence being the modest sort he was.

One member of the boy’s choir at the time was Gordon Gietz. Gordon has gone on to distinguish himself as a world class operatic tenor who (to the best of my knowledge) is still active in the world of opera. I like to think our efforts those years ago inspired Gordon to follow Alan Monk’s example.
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Well, I'm impressed by all the celebrity meetings. I can really only think of a handful of times I've even seen a celebrity in normal life and I can't recall ever having a conversation with a famous actor, musician, or athlete. I sat next to the congressman from the next district on a plane once, and he was very down-to-earth and wonky. I liked him. He was studying Spanish flash cards and he was a good listener. He was swept out of office in the 2018 blue wave.

Would Nobel Prize laureates qualify as heroes? I've met at least a dozen (Chemistry and Physics) and know several reasonably well. As you would expect, they are all quite normal and humble people, who continue to be enthusiastic about science and not content to rest on past successes. Notably, every single one of them is incredibly passionate about educating and supporting the next generation of scientists.

Meeting a Nobel Prize Laureate would definitely be one of the coolest experiences one could have. It might not be rock and roll cool, like hanging out with hot sexy ladies and partying hard all night, but sitting and chatting to someone who has a deep of knowledge about any subject is always a rewarding experience.
 
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We were lucky enough to meet Captain Eric Brown some years back, he was a total gentleman, as so many are of that generation and spent a long time talking to me and the family about all things aviation and WW2. Fascinating to talk to a guy who was actually there.

for those who haven't heard the name. - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eric_Brown_(pilot)
 
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I was raised in a very religious household, and so at a young age the people I looked up to were respected 'elders' in the church. As I grew up, I realized time and time again that they were all human and as fallible as the next person. This has created in my mind a view of everyone as an imperfect human with flaws and faults waiting to be discovered. As such, I've never really had any "heroes" and to this day I'm not sure I'd ascribe that title to anyone.

The most 'famous' person I've spent time with would have been when I gave a plant tour to Jack Layton in 2011 (former leader of our Canadian NDP party -- farther left than US Democrats). I am not a fan of that party, so he wouldn't have been a hero to me anyhow, but I found the act of speaking to a veteran politician truly painful. I asked serious questions hoping for some substance in response, but alas, every word from his mouth was regurgitated rhetoric from their party platforms.

If I were to put any human(s) into the category of "hero", it would be those who have made the ultimate sacrifice for others. By nature of my own definition, it would be impossible to ever meet any of them... 🙁
 
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I'm reposting my reply on another forum to a similar question:

I've met dozens if not hundreds by now, and the only ones that stick out are those who are either especially kind or especially rude. Sharon Stone, Cameron Diaz, Brad Pitt, Sean Astin, Carrie Fisher, and Colin Farrell stand out immediately as some of the extremely pleasant ones, like chatting with a neighbor (which Cameron was). Brad liked talking about his Mercedes G-wagen, like any other gear head. Colin is a dog lover and we bonded over my pooch. Ms. Fisher (RIP) enjoyed her libations and being flirty and playful in public.
Jane Seymour comes to mind right away as not the kindest. Jimmy Kimmel also has a bit of an attitude.
Follow the golden rule in LA and you'll go far in that town; "Treat the Average Joe like a celebrity, and treat the celebrities like an Average Joe."


I will add a couple more after reading some other comments here and being reminded of other encounters;
Debbie Gibson asked me to watch her purse backstage at an awards event. Brittney Spears needed my help once in Malibu as she was working to figure out how to open the front-trunk on her Ferrari. Had the extreme pleasure of dining with Lynn Redgrave after a premiere of hers for The White Countess at the Four Seasons in Beverly Hills. She took great care to make me feel welcome and asked me more about myself than she spoke.
 
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Probably because I used to be a performer, and that whole thing with the groupies and the false icons of celebrity makes me think that no one is special just because they are famous. That and watching Johnny Carson/Jay Leno and seeing some actors that I enjoy watching and realizing that many of them are empty-headed nincompoops who just happen to look good and can pretend well.

I met Dizzy Gillespie once, he was a very nice, down-to-earth guy.
 
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Jimmy Carter. I met him when he was running for President and he gave a speech from a neighbor’s barn (yes, really) near where I grew up in rural Pennsylvania. I was in high school at the time. I shook his hand and I remember him as being kind, gracious, plain spoken and very intelligent. Based on that encounter, I have often thought that he was far too decent a man to be running for President.
 
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That and watching Johnny Carson/Jay Leno and seeing some actors that I enjoy watching and realizing that many of them are empty-headed nincompoops who just happen to look good and can pretend well

Johnny Carson is a perfect example. Universally loved by audiences, I believe it’s not apocryphal that his own children did not attend his funeral.
 
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Not perhaps a massive celebrity spot, but I went to a screening of Dr No at the National Film Theatre about ten or fifteen years ago, and was seated somewhere in the middle. I thought I recognised the man next to me, and after a moment, I asked are you John Glen (not the astronaut, the director of all five 1980s James Bond films, often in very difficult circumstances). "Yes," he replied. I asked if he would prefer to be left in peace, and he said no, and asked what I was interested in in relation to the Bond films, and we spent ten minutes or so having a lovely chat until the film started. When it finished, he turned to me and said he'd enjoyed our chat, I replied in kind, and we both left. It left a lovely taste, and I always think of it whenever I see a film he worked on. Given that he started as an assistant on The Third Man, that's quite a few!
 
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When I was a kid I went to a private Catholic school in Tucson with the nephews of Senator Dennis Deconcini. My memory is hazy, but he came and gave a talk to us all, and seemed fine, but of course I knew nothing of politics at the time - this was maybe around 1987? Several years later I was talking to one of the adult leaders of my scout troop and mentioned that Senator Deconcini had come to my school and he was kind of surprised - stated that he'd tried for years to get the Senator to come and give talks and he never would. I told him that his nephew's went to my school at the time.

Around the same time the University of Arizona went to the Final Four, and shortly after Steve Kerr came to our school. We were told that we couldn't ask for autographs, but this was more a policy to not take up too much of his time - he did sign for some of the parents that were there, but I guess they didn't want 200 kids mobbing him. I did get to shake his hand, and he was very nice.

About 15 years ago (god how is it that long??) I won a meet and greet through one of the local radio stations with Aimee Mann, who was one of my very favorite singers at the time. She sang 3 or 4 songs for the 6 of us that were there and then we got to take photos with her and she signed stuff we brought. Well she signed my stuff - I think I was the only one that was a huge fan of hers, so I was the only one who had anything for her to sign. She was cordial and friendly, but I think she was surprised that I wanted a photo with her. I'd post the photo but it may be one of the worst photos of me ever taken. I unfortunately didn't get to go to her show that night as I had to work (worked nights at the time) but I've seen her a couple other times.

No other encounters that I can remember. But I will throw out there that every single story of anyone ever meeting Keanu Reeves states that he's basically the nicest person alive. Deserves a mention, even if none of us have met him.
 
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But I will throw out there that every single story of anyone ever meeting Keanu Reeves states that he's basically the nicest person alive.

I heard that Henry Winkler was the nicest person alive. 😉
 
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Probably because I used to be a performer, and that whole thing with the groupies and the false icons of celebrity makes me think that no one is special just because they are famous. That and watching Johnny Carson/Jay Leno and seeing some actors that I enjoy watching and realizing that many of them are empty-headed nincompoops who just happen to look good and can pretend well.

I met Dizzy Gillespie once, he was a very nice, down-to-earth guy.

I learned a lot from a friend that knew a number of Hollywood TV stars. He said don’t assume the stars have the quick wit or personality that their screen writers give them. The screen writers are head & shoulders funnier and more witty than the celebrities are in real life. Always remember that they are skilled actors, not real life heros.
 
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I heard that Henry Winkler was the nicest person alive. 😉

maybe, until he “jumped the shark”. 😀
 
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I heard that Henry Winkler was the nicest person alive. 😉

Just FYI due to the past tense used, Henry is still alive. He does a great job on "Barry"...
 
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I learned a lot from a friend that knew a number of Hollywood TV stars. He said don’t assume the stars have the quick wit or personality that their screen writers give them. The screen writers are head & shoulders funnier and more witty than the celebrities are in real life. Always remember that they are skilled actors, not real life heros.
...and back to Mel Brooks
 
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I learned a lot from a friend that knew a number of Hollywood TV stars. He said don’t assume the stars have the quick wit or personality that their screen writers give them. The screen writers are head & shoulders funnier and more witty than the celebrities are in real life. Always remember that they are skilled actors, not real life heros.

This is so true. Whenever I have trouble sleeping, I watch an interview with Kristin Wiig...
 
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I heard that Henry Winkler was the nicest person alive. 😉

Just FYI due to the past tense used, Henry is still alive. He does a great job on "Barry"...

I not a grammar expert, but my sense of this common usage is that it referred to something that was experienced in the past, not that the person has passed...