I do understand you are saying this mostly in jest, but despite that...I don't know if this will make any sense whatsoever, especially coming from a collector, but I will give this point a try, hoping someone else either understands, or has experienced it themselves: sometimes when you know someone well, and really like and respect them, you don't even want to ask or offer. In some ways, for a reason I am having difficulty putting my finger on, it would seem to dilute the friendship. In truth, I am much happier that he has this great piece than I would be if I got it from him. My suspicion is that all deals, no matter how friendly, have some adversarial component to them, and occasionally one wants to avoid this completely.
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