My wife bought a new handbag!

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Something came up at the end of the week that reminded me of this thread.

My wife came home from a business trip and pulled this out of her bag. She said she bought it to treat herself because she’s had some long tough days at work lately. She is right that she’s been working very hard as of late, so I do not fault her for treating herself.

It’s a belt, but she hasn’t unpacked it yet, and I respect her privacy just like I would hope she would reciprocate if I received a small package in the mail, roughly the size of a box that might contain a watch.

She paid more for the belt than I would ever pay for a belt for myself, but that’s not the point here. To each their own.

The point is, and the question I have is, can I infer a get out of jail free card to buy myself another watch I don’t need with money I could probably spend on something more useful?
 
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Something came up at the end of the week that reminded me of this thread.

My wife came home from a business trip and pulled this out of her bag. She said she bought it to treat herself because she’s had some long tough days at work lately. She is right that she’s been working very hard as of late, so I do not fault her for treating herself.

It’s a belt, but she hasn’t unpacked it yet, and I respect her privacy just like I would hope she would reciprocate if I received a small package in the mail, roughly the size of a box that might contain a watch.

She paid more for the belt than I would ever pay for a belt for myself, but that’s not the point here. To each their own.

The point is, and the question I have is, can I infer a get out of jail free card to buy myself another watch I don’t need with money I could probably spend on something more useful?

Just don't buy a Gucci watch!
 
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Just don't buy a Gucci watch!
I’ve never once in my life ever thought of buying a Gucci watch………

Until now. 🤦🏽
 
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The point is, and the question I have is, can I infer a get out of jail free card to buy myself another watch I don’t need with money I could probably spend on something more useful?
Yes. We give you permission to buy any watch you want. As long as you post pictures.
 
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The point is, and the question I have is, can I infer a get out of jail free card to buy myself another watch I don’t need with money I could probably spend on something more useful?
My wife has one rule when it comes to watches and cars - "Buy what you want but I don't want to hear about it. No endless talking about about how great it is, no justifications, no complaints about spending money, no hours of should I get this or get that."

You could try my approach. It takes a little time but the result is worthwhile. Start with telling your wife you're thinking about buying a watch. Then talk about different watches for hours and hours, weeks on end. Eventually she will say just buy it and i never want to hear another word about watches.

Trying to justify a watch based on her purchases just leads to an endless chain of tit for tat purchases. But if your wife is anything like mine, she'll have a low tolerance for talking about watches and your watch box will soon be overflowing.
 
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My wife has one rule when it comes to watches and cars - "Buy what you want but I don't want to hear about it. No endless talking about about how great it is, no justifications, no complaints about spending money, no hours of should I get this or get that."

You could try my approach. It takes a little time but the result is worthwhile. Start with telling your wife you're thinking about buying a watch. Then talk about different watches for hours and hours, weeks on end. Eventually she will say just buy it and i never want to hear another word about watches.

Trying to justify a watch based on her purchases just leads to an endless chain of tit for tat purchases. But if your wife is anything like mine, she'll have a low tolerance for talking about watches and your watch box will soon be overflowing.
My wife doesn't really concern herself with things I buy with "my own money". But she does like to travel and if I gripe about a trip she wants us to take, were I to think that it's "too expensive" or "we just took a trip," then she knows what buttons to push.
 
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I guess I am lucky. Nobody to tell me I can't buy something but myself. The cat doesn't care as long as she's taken care of.
 
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I have some very nice watches. But if my girlfriend includes her handbags, shoes and clothes, she’s way ahead of my Omega collection.
 
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we are also, "one for me, one for you" household.

I was complaining about the robberies inside of Chanel and Cartier boutiques, then she found VanCleef in Paris. These days I try to convince her Cartier is just as good...please go back to buying from Cartier.

At this rate, I'll be qualified to ask for a Cartier Crash in 2030.
 
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Perhaps I need to look in the mirror. Am I just fishing for excuses to feed my watch habit?

 
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And she won’t tell me how much she spent.

Is this my chance to buy another watch!?!?!?!
Hell, when mine buys a watch and that’s when I know it’s my turn!
 
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Reading this tread I am so glad that me and my wife dont have a "mother-son" relationship, nor a "father-daughter". We are grown up people that dont need parental guidance from each other, or we make shitty decisions together.

And its interesting how collecting shoes or hand bags is so similar to collecting watches.