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·As with therapy, there is value in talking through challenging decisions with others prior to making them - which is why I would like to borrow the wisdom of fellow OF members.
I was married 5 years ago, and my father-in-law has a tradition of buying a watch for each son-in-law as a gift to mark the occasion - an incredible gesture. The first brother in law received a Cartier Pasha watch - certainly very nice but also very much not my style. Knowing I’m a watch guy, I was given a budget to choose my own. I found a JLC Moonphase Ultra Thin, pre-owned, with silver dial. It didn’t quite squeak into the budget but I supplemented the purchase (unbeknownst to my father in law) with an extra $1,500 to make the math work. (The last brother in law, who knows nothing about watches, chose a Moonwatch with my advice).
Since the purchase, for 5 years I’ve enjoyed the watch. I certainly LIKE the watch; but I do not LOVE the watch. I wear it formal functions and otherwise it sits in my watch box.
The truth is, I’ve always loved the Reverso - but the ones I wanted weren’t in the budget at the time. I could simply buy a Reverso, but I’m actively seeking to shrink my collection, not grow it, and I generally prefer more rugged sports watches day-to-day (with two active kids under 4). My resolution as a collector this year is to move away from watches I do not love, and focus only on those I do.
Thus my question: how gauche would it be to sell my MUT for something like a Reverso Tribute to 1931 (something I would definitely wear more and, have always wanted)?
My father-in-law never comments on the watch when I wear it; I have a number that I rotate as I’m sure many of you do, and since he wasn’t directly involved in the original purchase may not actually fully remember what it looks like or what watch it was at this stage.
My wife may have strong feelings about this - and I haven’t broached even a thought about it at this stage.
Am I crazy for considering a gift switcheroo here? Or am I the only one who really cares and thus should follow my heart?
I was married 5 years ago, and my father-in-law has a tradition of buying a watch for each son-in-law as a gift to mark the occasion - an incredible gesture. The first brother in law received a Cartier Pasha watch - certainly very nice but also very much not my style. Knowing I’m a watch guy, I was given a budget to choose my own. I found a JLC Moonphase Ultra Thin, pre-owned, with silver dial. It didn’t quite squeak into the budget but I supplemented the purchase (unbeknownst to my father in law) with an extra $1,500 to make the math work. (The last brother in law, who knows nothing about watches, chose a Moonwatch with my advice).
Since the purchase, for 5 years I’ve enjoyed the watch. I certainly LIKE the watch; but I do not LOVE the watch. I wear it formal functions and otherwise it sits in my watch box.
The truth is, I’ve always loved the Reverso - but the ones I wanted weren’t in the budget at the time. I could simply buy a Reverso, but I’m actively seeking to shrink my collection, not grow it, and I generally prefer more rugged sports watches day-to-day (with two active kids under 4). My resolution as a collector this year is to move away from watches I do not love, and focus only on those I do.
Thus my question: how gauche would it be to sell my MUT for something like a Reverso Tribute to 1931 (something I would definitely wear more and, have always wanted)?
My father-in-law never comments on the watch when I wear it; I have a number that I rotate as I’m sure many of you do, and since he wasn’t directly involved in the original purchase may not actually fully remember what it looks like or what watch it was at this stage.
My wife may have strong feelings about this - and I haven’t broached even a thought about it at this stage.
Am I crazy for considering a gift switcheroo here? Or am I the only one who really cares and thus should follow my heart?
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