Thanks for the further responses!
Funny this morning at my hotel, the wait staff serving me breakfast had a beautiful Explorer II 16570 white dial on his wrist, had a chat about how his father gave it to him a few years ago after he graduated university. Definitely fueled the fire for the explorer II... its just hard for me to justify the crap bracelet though - if I'm gonna pay $4500-5500 (for newer 3186 models) for a watch, I'd want it to have an amazing bracelet and clasp. You can get beautiful girard perregaux's and JLC's second hand for this kind of money! I know the hollow links reduce the weight, but I'd definitely prefer the more solid current gen rolex bracelets.
More-so, I've noticed after trying a few on that the EXPII bracelet, you can only remove 2 links on the 6-o-clock side of the watch... meaning people with smaller wrists such as mine (6.5 inches) are guaranteed to have a significantly off-centre bracelet. How annoying!!
I do love the design though.. so it's a pity that the newer Explorer II 42mm is so large and oversized - I really don't like the proportions (just my take, maybe biased because I have small wrists).
time to save for the datejust 36!