When we went to a resort a few years back I bought a Chekov book at the airport bookstore to read on the beach. My Dog was that every a dressing read! My wife got a kick out of my reaction. If I were to read another I would probably need to seek counseling.

 

I remember this now. She was a special character but I don’t think she was a gold digger, and maybe there are cultural differences you don’t realize but it was very insulting. In any event, there are other women on OF so maybe it’s best to avoid calling them names....

 

I would never call names a person if isn't what I feel he/she is if that makes any sense to you.

 

No, that makes no sense, but it does provide insight into your character. If you "feel" someone has certain characteristics, then you believe it's acceptable for you to call them names.

 

In the case of the member that is no longer here I did it and I was right even that cost me to get banned.I was offered to apologize from cicindela,so he would not ban me and I declined the offer and preffered to get ban than to apologize to her

 

How do you know? Do you even know what a « gold digger » is?

 

It's a gift and of course I know!

 

You must be a millionnaire then. Because otherwise you must be squandering your gift.

What is a gold digger then.

 

Do you wanna talk in private?You are getting very curios about my character I think

 

Thanks for the help @Syrte thats a gold digger

 

Do you know this term: Snowflake...

 

Nope but it seems italy1861 knows it.

 

I know more than enough right now. And there’s another thing I know: I don’t make the rules and you don’t maie the rules. And the rules are, you don’t insult people, even if your instinct is telling you things.

 

It is not insulting if it is true.

 

Urban Dictionary: special snowflake.

Definitions:

1. A member of that newly-adult, me’er-than-me generation which expects attention and praise just for being themselves — doing anything to deserve it is completely optional.

Example: Oh, he’s too much of special snowflake to get a day job — his mom’s paying the rent while he hangs out waiting for the perfect high-paying project to come along. I guess the market for C-minus filmmaking majors is a little soft right now or something.

2. Someone who believes they deserve the stars because they like something no one else likes, or does something no one else does. There is no know cure for SSS (Special Snowflake Syndrome), so the rest of the world must deal with these sort of people until they realize they aren’t better than anyone else, and they don’t need an award or a cookie for their interests. Not to be confused with a hipster.

 

Grazie mille amico!Sei molto gentile.

 

This is a most peculiar thread.

 

Prego, felice di aiutare...

 

Honestly, like all other threads where claims about things are made: if you don't have hard evidence that you are using to impugn someone's character who isn't even a member here anymore, it would really be best to just drop this now. And if you do: who the hell cares?