Big collecting mistake/regret?

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My advice to new collectors is to take it slow. I have a little bit of regret at the speed in which my collection grew once the vintage bug hit me. I think I missed some opportunities. OF course I’ve also not yet learned to let go.

Over the years I've been in this, the people who tend to come into the hobby, then leave it fairly quickly, are often those who go from one watch to another very quickly in search of what they really want. After a few years of chewing through watches and never really being happy, they end up moving on to another hobby. Not everyone of course, but those that tend to burn brightest also burn out quickest.

I have always tended to be quite deliberate about what I buy, and have kept most of them as a result. If I had bought what I really thought I wanted early on, I wouldn't have any of those watches now. So I am a big advocate of taking it slow and really understanding/developing you tastes before buying.
 
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Over the years I've been in this, the people who tend to come into the hobby, then leave it fairly quickly, are often those who go from one watch to another very quickly in search of what they really want. After a few years of chewing through watches and never really being happy, they end up moving on to another hobby. Not everyone of course, but those that tend to burn brightest also burn out quickest.

I have always tended to be quite deliberate about what I buy, and have kept most of them as a result. If I had bought what I really thought I wanted early on, I wouldn't have any of those watches now. So I am a big advocate of taking it slow and really understanding/developing you tastes before buying.
I agree with the first part about burning out - certainly. But I fall into the camp of casting a wide net as I learn. Most of my learning has come from buying and failing- seeing what is possible and what’s just a basket case. Of course we all want to learn from the mistakes of others, but some of us need to fall on our own ass to really get it. I wasted a lot of money on the steep learning curve, but the education I feel is invaluable. Now I don’t make the same impulsive buys I did when I started collecting, but I still fall prey when a new brand/model/style catches my eye about which I know nothing. The frenzy and learning curve starts all over.
 
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I agree with the first part about burning out - certainly. But I fall into the camp of casting a wide net as I learn. Most of my learning has come from buying and failing- seeing what is possible and what’s just a basket case. Of course we all want to learn from the mistakes of others, but some of us need to fall on our own ass to really get it. I wasted a lot of money on the steep learning curve, but the education I feel is invaluable. Now I don’t make the same impulsive buys I did when I started collecting, but I still fall prey when a new brand/model/style catches my eye about which I know nothing. The frenzy and learning curve starts all over.

Yep, as I said, not everyone burns out doing this. I've just seen many collectors come in guns blazing, and buying and selling stuff at a rapid pace, and then they are gone.

I've certainly sold watches that I have bought, but not nearly as many as I've kept.
 
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My advice to new collectors is to take it slow. I have a little bit of regret at the speed in which my collection grew once the vintage bug hit me. I think I missed some opportunities.

That’s interesting … you’re saying you missed some opportunities because you went too fast? Is it because you didn’t save enough powder waiting for the *right* opportunities?
 
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My biggest regret is not being a watch collector when I used to visit a naval base that sold off military watches for buttons, I purchased many over the years to wear in manual work and when they were beat up which was on occasion was after a month or so I just purchased some more 🤦
 
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I wish I would have bought less watches and spent the money on nicer ones that held their value.
 
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I mean a chronic systemic mistake or regret, not a single isolated one (like selling or buying one, or dropping one etc.).

For instance my biggest is not paying enough attention to case condition. For years it was only about the dial and I neglected the importance of an unpolished or nearly unpolished case. Now these pieces really bother me.

Anybody else have some others?

Many people actually like buying watches that are in good condition or have been polished.
 
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Many people actually like buying watches that are in good condition or have been polished.
Those are two totally different things. Not many people here don’t regret buying an over polished watch due to inexperience and lack of knowledge.
 
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That’s interesting … you’re saying you missed some opportunities because you went too fast? Is it because you didn’t save enough powder waiting for the *right* opportunities?
Yep! Should have kept some powder and shot for say, a Clapton when they were still, not crazy. I now find myself with fewer occasions to wear all these watches but I still like em all, even the “mistakes”.
 
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Buying watches, period! Obsessing over minute details, searching for impossible to find parts, blowing all my savings and spending far too much time on forums.
 
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Yep! Should have kept some powder and shot for say, a Clapton when they were still, not crazy. I now find myself with fewer occasions to wear all these watches but I still like em all, even the “mistakes”.
As with many things it’s helpful to understand behavioral patterns that can impact our decision making. For a long time I would only look at watches in a certain price range because my previous purchases were in the same price range. I would think “that watch is too expensive” not because it was expensive compared to other examples of the same reference in similar condition, but because it was expensive compared to anything I had previously bought.
 
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As with many things it’s helpful to understand behavioral patterns that can impact our decision making. For a long time I would only look at watches in a certain price range because my previous purchases were in the same price range. I would think “that watch is too expensive” not because it was expensive compared to other examples of the same reference in similar condition, but because it was expensive compared to anything I had previously bought.
Yes … so you wind up staying in that lane and not looking beyond, spending the cash there instead of stretching. Good point.
 
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Yes … so you wind up staying in that lane and not looking beyond, spending the cash there instead of stretching. Good point.
And you end up buying several in that range rather than saving for one in a higher price bracket- I can’t afford that $5k watch, so I’ll buy 6 $1k watches 😵‍💫
 
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I guess I regret buying the second revision of the Planet Ocean (43.5mm) thinking it would fit better than the first 8500 Planet Ocean. Ended up flipping both. When will Omega reduce the thickness?

One other regret, but it ended up working out in the end. I sold my blue Blancpain FF. It was one of the nicest watches I ever owned. But then I lost a bunch of weight and then the 45.5mm looked silly on my wrist. So in the end, it no longer would have fit, so I now don't miss it.


I have a few examples of things that went wrong (or appeared), that ultimately turned out well. One was buying my Gemini IV on eBay. Super crappy pics, took a huge gamble.
 
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I guess I regret buying the second revision of the Planet Ocean (43.5mm) thinking it would fit better than the first 8500 Planet Ocean. Ended up flipping both. When will Omega reduce the thickness?

One other regret, but it ended up working out in the end. I sold my blue Blancpain FF. It was one of the nicest watches I ever owned. But then I lost a bunch of weight and then the 45.5mm looked silly on my wrist. So in the end, it no longer would have fit, so I now don't miss it.


I have a few examples of things that went wrong (or appeared), that ultimately turned out well. One was buying my Gemini IV on eBay. Super crappy pics, took a huge gamble.
That Fifty Fathoms 🥰
Even I now regret that you sold it 😁
 
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In 2019 - I decided I was ready to spend more than £500 on a watch and wanted to get my first (and probably only) nice piece.

I bought the SMP three times (black, blue and white) across 2019 and sold all of them because I'm in love with the watch but I have 6.1"/6.2" wrists and every single time was like a holiday/summer romance and I convinced myself that I could pull off the 50mm L2L. The bracelet links were just stupidly long and had no taper - so it used to cut and squeeze my wrist in all the wrong places. Had I bought the 39.5 PO the first time around, I would've never have lost £3k in selling 3 SMPs.

I am an idiot and still didn't learn my lesson - ended up buying the Aqua Terra 38 as I fell in love with the white dial at the end of 2021 after seeing videos and photos of it. Now that I have it, I'm pissed at the bracelet and its lack of adjustment-on-the-fly!

Why didn't I just go with my gut feeling and get the PO?! I'm so indecisive but then, all of a sudden I blindly leap into the next thing and end up struggling with it soon after lol! Anyway - I want to keep the Aqua Terra because I truly love the shape of the watch and the dial/indices/hands. I can't seem to get enough of it. The bracelet is ruining the experience for me though.
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