Walrus
·I have pretty much every vice/problem one could have to deal with somehow I dodged the weight issue but I’m working with a few people who unfortunately suffer from the “morbid obesity” diagnoses. I’ve taken them to nutritionist and done all in my power externally to assist them but damn what a struggle it is for them and when they tell me how it impacts their self esteem it really hits me. So it’s a heck of a battle to fight and involves many behavioral and lifestyle changes I got a crash course in its complexity. If people are overweight and it doesn’t bother them that’s one thing, those who fight that battle is another.
It really irks me now when I hear people make comments about peoples weight. Shoot losing 100lbs is quite a goal and certainly worthy of a nice reward. I don’t particularly care for in the US how we use that BMI to determine obesity as it puts a lot of people in the overweight category who I don’t think necessarily belong there. That’s another story of course.
I just learned never to comment on peoples body type as we all have things we don’t like and my attractive coworker (female) who is a good friend asked me if I thought she was fat, I thought she was kidding as she is in great shape so I laughed it off saying “ya your fat” I could tell she was very upset. She later told me she was fat in high school and got teased often and it bothers her to this day. I think I felt bad for a week about that one but we all know many kids especially can be cruel.
So I leave it alone, who am I to judge but when people do ask for help I do what I can and damn what a battle to fight. Congrats on your weight loss and well deserved beautiful watch.
It really irks me now when I hear people make comments about peoples weight. Shoot losing 100lbs is quite a goal and certainly worthy of a nice reward. I don’t particularly care for in the US how we use that BMI to determine obesity as it puts a lot of people in the overweight category who I don’t think necessarily belong there. That’s another story of course.
I just learned never to comment on peoples body type as we all have things we don’t like and my attractive coworker (female) who is a good friend asked me if I thought she was fat, I thought she was kidding as she is in great shape so I laughed it off saying “ya your fat” I could tell she was very upset. She later told me she was fat in high school and got teased often and it bothers her to this day. I think I felt bad for a week about that one but we all know many kids especially can be cruel.
So I leave it alone, who am I to judge but when people do ask for help I do what I can and damn what a battle to fight. Congrats on your weight loss and well deserved beautiful watch.



